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Wife not interested

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I am a man aged 40 years married to a beautiful woman. We have been married for 11 years now.

The problem has been the issue of Sex. She is what I may term a frigid woman. She does not like sex. Besides me trying to give enough quality and quantity she does not respond in the affirmative.

Recently she had a dental problem and her front tooth was removed. That has been reason enough that she does not want to be kissed. It has now been 1 year No Kiss from my dear wife and I love kisses. What do I do?

Worried Man

Please give mature advise

41 COMMENTS

  1. We Indians are better lovers, i have over 6 zambian black girls wanting me for sex, I am not showing off, just saying the truth, beng given on a silver plate, maybe because of my car and looks

  2. #2. hahahahahaha, that’s very grouse young man.anyway, you are not the subject here. to the writer of the article, I wonder how is your relationship with this “wife” of yours in others areas other than sex. you can from there deduce a stable judgment.

  3. I can relate to your madam. I can recommend you a book which I found very interesting and helpful.

    You can order it from Amazon.com costs less than USD7

    The Act of Marriage. The beauty of sexual love. It teaches both man and woman how to go about things. According to the Author a woman is never frigid. It’s a myth. It’s worth the try. You are an honest man. She will appreciate it, trust me.

  4. It is sad you dont seem to get what you want but a little advise to you-sex for women is in the mind,your wife could be having a problem either with you and this may affect her ‘appetite’ for sex.Us women usually respond positively whne happy and in a good mood.Try cheering her up ,kisses alone are not enough.Try taking her out,i mean,how is your relationship like………….read more o…….

  5. #7 Mary u r right mostly men get frustrated when they dont get what they want but women are different.try this trick.take her out to a movie or shoping or do something that you know will get her on top of the world that day you wont ask for anything she will probably even initiate.the whole point is if you treat her as somebody who mu sex aduty bound you will not get it and if you do it wont be enjoyable it will be rape then she will eventually hate u as she feels you are not sensitive to her feelings.just make her feel like that princes you dated 11 yrs ago.the problem with afro marriages is once married end of romance.women lack romance in most couples.give her good time u will tell us.

  6. Tell her it pains you that there’s no more kisses flowing. Tell her openly and she will tell you what could be bothering her.

  7. amakisi ba guy.feel yo woman.show her u are the hero in her life appreciate her and when your friends visit make her feel important tell them about her build her confidence.all these could be contributing factors,hug her get her sexy underware, perfume,take walks together no kids and hold her hand,girlfriend mulabosha but you wife u dont.dont just get close in the nite mu blanket namushibata nokushipa. teba pongoshi.go together in public places.the problem is not sex but you relationship in not healthy. something is wrong.most men are fun to workmates but not to spouses.establish the fun at home too.i have worked with family men iv heard alot of this just understand her thats the magic.

  8. #2 you aint got nothing on me essex boy with a mad swag i bang indian babes fom east london not 6 like you,everyweek am bangin and i aint got no car trins and buses and me am boasting because i rip and pound that meow cat mwaiche wandi ni zee.besides everyone knows all races wanna get banged by black men

  9. mwenye ni loss.tununka fye impilipili na garlic,its now they have learned to wash up clean i mean smell fresh,dont give us that bullll you are not even half a zedian

  10. Hey Dude dont force things give your wife a break.love is paid back with love.Get another bed, mind your business and tell her u will be ready for her when she gets ready for you. keep your distance and work on her mind.Get laid some where else and live your life.
    life is short and we only live once.each day as it comes man.give a woman one mile she will take ten.
    The woman am doing right now is marreid with three children (white)and she told me she no longer has interest in her hubby.Think man.open your eyes.There is always a sign.

  11. after smoking your ciga you think a normal woman can accept your kiss?

    on the other issue mune don`t lie that you do give her the best. Mulefundwa before tamulaupwa so that you know apakwingisha. No woman can refuse good sex am sure some chap is doing a better job than you somewhere thats why you are not given. Ulelasa nga Ponyax mambala yamona bakwafya. Ufwile ukulasa like a man so that your wife atasha na Lesa uwamubumbile when she feels pa bwato.

  12. Don’t confuse love and sex. Discuss matters with yuh lady and get to find out where de problem really is. You may think you overstand but you might be wrong…de dawatas dem always take a little longer before dem tell de whole truth. Patience is de golden key to every woman’s heart. Believe me, Rasta recipe fi years and it still a work!

  13. Bwoy #29, wah do dem weh you a deal with, man? Me check seh yu rahtid! Mind yuh chat, bwoy! Leave dem tings deh fe di elders.

  14. Ponyax mudala nashako! Ukusontekasonteka kulocesha! Impondo imo ku Zed mudala walingumembezi. Ka Misisi ako naleoca akale inenati awe nipanopmelwe, yaba, kanshi impondo ninshi walishiba. Ine tembezi mudala. Thinking walamonekela awe zoona nicks!

    Ekubwelako ulubila mudala. Stuck again with iyi iyabuta inkanda na bokosi nicks. Imilmo tayaishiba nokwishiba. Ploting on doing her friend mudala. Nimpolopolo iyo. Lelo amatako, awe filyafine babapanga abanensu, ayalebela mudala.

  15. ukafwaye ba masai bakakupeleko kaimaima.Why should you suffer,mugabe alituma abantu bakwe,babafye mu off pick,try one and you won’t regret.

  16. #24 Get in touh me on +1 718 21446282, hurry please. I think you have the solution to solve my problem. I also need more details on your advice in #29 and #34. It sounds good.

  17. You need Jesus. You see, sex is spiritual and without the God who ordained it, sex is useless. I really do not understand what you mean by “sex”. The word is broad and it does not only mean intercourse. There is more to sex than intercourse. I would say sex should begin immediately from the time you finish intercouse. It should be an on going process. The words you say, the way you hold her when saying goodbye in the morning, the way you talk to her during the day on the phone, the way you show how glad you are to see her after a long day’s work. The compliments you give her. All these add up to sex. Finally when you do it, you might reach a climax, from the fullness of emotions thus built.

  18. It seems you are the type who say “na Musonda, fulama tumone”. You need to work your way up to the climax. Believe you me, you will surely enjoy and she will be glad you appreciate her. The problem with you fellas is: you can do anything to get a girl, but once you know she’s yours, you treat her like a machine meant to relieve yourself. Muchinje ba monko.

    Don’t listen to those who are advising you to sin. Adultary will bring you too much trouble, let alone sickness. Just show your wife some love. Share her emotions. Be there for her always not only when you want sex.

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