The Kabushi local court in Ndola as granted divorce to the 52 year old house wife Chanda.
This is in a matter where Chanda sued to end her marriage stating that her husband Mbewe 54, was not satisfying her sexually.
In passing judgment presiding magistrates Mildred Namuziye and Paul Kayula said Mr Mbewe had failed to satisfy his wife sexually which was
an indication that there was no marriage.
The presiding magistrate said Mr Mbewe was supposed to divide time for his second wife who in this case was Ms Chanda and his first wife.
She said when a man was in a polygamous marriage he divides time for both homes unlike in the case where Mr Mbewe left his matrimonial home
for good but still continued to claim that he was married to her.
Ms Chanda of Mushili told the court that she got marriage to Mr Mbewe in 1987 as a second wife during which dowry was paid.
The couple had four children together and the problems in the marriage started in 2000 when Mr Mbewe packed all his clothes claiming he was
going for work but instead went to Kabushi to his first wife and stopped dividing time to visit his second wife.
She said Mr Mbewe would go for one to two months without visiting his second wife with the children and also stopped providing food for
them.
This move angered Ms Chanda and when she complained Mr Mbewe demanded for oral sex from his wife.
Thereafter Ms Chanda was surprised to learn that her husband had married a third wife by the name of Evelyn with whom he had a child
with.
This surprised her because her husband had claimed he had been sick and could not have sex with her because he could not perform.
In a cross examination Mr Mbewe said he decided to leave the house because of the problems that they had continued to experience with his
wife.
Mr Mbewe said when he fell sick his wife Ms Chanda decided to leave her to go for business in Lusaka.
But Ms Chanda told the court that she reported all the problems they were experiencing to the Shimukombe and the husband had left the house
since 2008 to date.
But in defence Mr Mbewe said his wife Ms Chanda decided to leave her because his manhood had stopped functioning.
Mr Mbewe said his wife Ms Chanda was even looking for medicine for him so that he could recover from this problem.
“Even up to now I’m still sick my manhood does not function properly this one (Ms Chanda) went to even search for medicine for me,” he
said.
He said following the mal functioning of his manhood his wife used to run away from the house at night claiming she was collecting debts
from her debtors as late as 04:00 am in the morning.
In delivering judgment the presiding magistrate said Mr Mbewe had a problem because he was in the habit of marrying.
“When a man marries for the first, second and then marries a third wife then that man is a problem because how can he be marrying any
how. It’s a man who is a problem here,” she said.
She said Mr Mbewe left his second wife claiming he was sick but went on to have a child meaning he was okay.
She said men that were in polygamous marriage always divide time for their wives unlike in this case and dismissed the marriage.
She said the defendant who in this case was Mr Mbewe had a chance to appeal to the magistrate court within 30 days and Mr Mbewe was to
compensate his Ms Chanda by paying her the sum of K8 million.
The first installment of K500, 000 was supposed to be paid on June 11,2012 and the other payment would K300, 000 per month.
Ms Chanda has also be granted the Mushili house with her four children, because Mr Mbewe had a house in Kabushi where he lived with
his first wife and the other house in Chipulukusu was for Evelyn who he claimed he had left her.
All the belongings in the house had been given to Ms Chanda and Mr Mbewe also decided to give a sewing machine to his wife also.
But Mr Mbewe said the judgment was not fair because he would pay Ms Chanda a lot of money but the presiding judge said it was a fair
judgment considering the fact that they had been married for more than 25 years.
Chanda got what was coming to her. She broke mbewe’s first marriage. Mbewe needs Viagara like so many middle aged men.
The cost of toleratg a man who has left another woman!
sex sex sex sex sex sex @
52 you still want it !
You’ll also want it.
oh powerful sex !
Speechless, I don’t have much type but, SHAKE MY HEAD!
Too bad. The man was entangled in a love triangle. Too much of pussy for him to service.
The man should go for PSA test.
Though the man is not so old, he is a specimen of the type of men the world need get rid off in order to control the HIV/AIDS disease, the suffering of children as well as the problems brought about to women who raise single children.
With this kind of a story, i wonder how the children are feeling…who i suspect are quite old by now. Shame
Na Chanda nao 04 chakati ati kunkongole.. Bale konza bamambala
No wonder most Zambians are on ARVs.
These dimwits know there is AIDS in Africa why would you even be claiming not to be satisfied sexually?
mbewe uli chipuba sana musula obe
iliko bad, nyele yamuchita muzimayi pa 52,kunyengana si tilesa manjekanyengedwe.
“with whom he has a child with” ba editor sure, what kind of English is that?
Hmmm. Like my brother Mwanawakwitu #4, I am not really keen on commenting on this one but the details are too explosive to ignore. When some men can hardly a piece of the cake, Mbewe has 2. He seems to be willing but he is not able to eat them! Now that’s agony!
Moral of the story: make sure your 4×4 is in motion before you start driving uphill. And make sure you have the stamina before you start a marathon!
meant to say “When some men can hardly get a piece of the cake…”
@ 12 Nine Chale my brother hahahahahahaha. That has made my saturday.
I am working torwdas marriage each day by building a friendship with a very special friend of mine. You can be CEO at work but at home take charge of nourishing your man’s mind, body and soul. I’m not saying you have to cook food per se but you but learn how to feed a man’s EGO. That way, if you decide to leave, he feels like a less of a man without you!
Hahah,this tells you that men are like wine:some turn into vinegar,the best improve with age.
Mbewe is a big problem as he was not suppose to marry more than one wife, It was only going to be good if Mbewe had gone back to his first wife and forget about marriage destroyer who is Chanda. On the other hand, foolish Mbewe married the third wife. It is like Mbewe gets fade up with women after marrying them. He is a sex maniac
“Even up to now I’m still sick my manhood does not function properly this one (Ms Chanda) went to even search for medicine for me,”
Mbewe Mbewe Mbewe….yaba. Ni kulimba mudala.
as old as 52 still demandinh mo lounds!!
Just learnt at 52 it is still required by women. For men I know they are still in their prime at that age even 75.
Chipata guy must be a useless chap. Mukulambulu………… Iwe Mbewe ukutemwa ukupa upa wasuka wacimona. That Bemba lady, Chanda even if she is of that age still demanding! Mwalwa nabanga!!! Mbewe learn to respect your self now. If you continue, you will continue disgracing yourself in court. No short cuts mu court, you will be disclosing all your bed room secrets. Wake up and stop ok.
Iwe Mbewe kanshi mwaba shani mwebena Chipata! That Bemba lady is tough tested go to Tanzania you will be assisted. Problem of divorce, you have have created problems to innocent children ukutemwa ukupa upa iwe ci Mbewe.
Does this puplication have an editor?The English in almost anything you read here is so erroneous and childish.
Comment: this is reason of marrying more than one wife, it comes to situations were u will fail to satisfy yo two concubines, they will both want to be serviced at once.
Seek help from God before going to court. There are certain matters the court can’t sort out except God himself because He is the one who instituted marrage. You are planting bad seed to the nation , those after you will do the same. I have so many matters concerning this , the solution is not the court but God. If the court had a solution to the marital matters like that , they woul not grant a divorce after many years in marrage. Think before you take such cases to court………………….