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UPND president Hakainde Hichilema
UPND president Hakainde Hichilema

The Non Governmental Organizations’ Coordinating Council (NGOCC) has demanded the arrest of former UPND National Youth Chairman Joe Kalusa’s for threatening to organize party youth on the Copperbelt to gang-rape FDD leader Edith Nawakwi in order to teach her to respect married men like UPND Hakainde Hichilema.

The women movement has also demanded that UPND leader Hakainde Hichilema retract his recent statement and apologize to Ms. Nawakwi and the nation at large for his sexiest attacks on the female gender.

NGOCC Chairperson Beatrice Grillo in a statement released to QFM News the media reports attributed to Kalusa are retrogressive not only to the democracy of the nation but also towards the fight against gender based violence and in particular violence against women.

Ms Grillo says Kalusa’s threats are a danger not only to Ms. Nawakwi but to society at large.

She says it is shameful for a public figure and supposedly future leader to engage him-self in acts of perpetuating violence against the female gender.

Ms Grillo adds that differences in opinions should not be the basis for threatening violence as amicable ways of resolving difference should always be sought.

She appeals and urges the youths in the political parties not to be used as tools of violence stating that the Zambian youths have much more to offer to the country than being brainwashed into violence.

She says NGOCC calls upon Kalusa as a matter of urgency to apologize to Ms. Nawakwi and the women of Zambia for the anguish caused by his careless threats.

Ms Grillo states that as the women’s movement, they have listened and read with dismay over the recent days unwarranted attacks on the FDD leader, adding that the unfolding tension between Ms. Nawakwi and Mr. Hichilema is a source of concern and unfortunate especially that it is has deteriorated to the use of unpalatable language.

She says NGOCC is of the view that the two leaders have a lot to offer and should therefore engage in dialogue in order to find a lasting resolve to their differences rather than insulting each other in the media.

Ms Grillo further states that it is NGOCC’s considered view that Mr. Hichilema sexiest attacks are uncalled for and should not be tolerated in this day and era given the fact that Zambia as a country has ratified various protocols and conventions on the elimination of violence against women.

QFM

97 COMMENTS

  1. JUST COZ NAWAKWI IS A  WOMAN AND ALIGNED TO THE CURRENT GOVT DOES NOT MEAN SHE SHOULD NOT APOLOGISE FOR HER CARELESS UTTERANCES WHICH HAS LED TO WHAT SHE ASKED FOR.

  2. As much as I respect women, i am also getting concerned. Why is is that when a woman attacks a man, no one talks about it, but when a man attacks a woman, its war. I beginning to feel like nowadays men’s rights are being neglected, Nawakwi called HH a pig, but how come no one is talking about it.

  3. IWE KA EICHI EICHI Just APOLOGISE TO THE WOMEN .WHY ARE U BEING CONFRONTATIONAL ALL THE TIME. THIS IS NOT THE UPND WE KNEW UNDER MAZOKA!!
    YOUR STRATEGY MAY BACK FIRE BIG TIME ZAMBIANS ARE NOT STUPID.

  4. HH should not opologise to Nawakwi, she does not deserve to be respected. Nawakwi has no passport to insult married men as she wish. Let her insult her own husband and her own father and brothers. Why should HH be insulted as she wish when all he said was, am married, that a metaphor that nawakwi has no respect only those she sleeps with and slept with.

  5. NGOCC where have you been when Nawakwi was all over attacking – insulting others withno shame. You better discipline the initiator of this rift before attacking HH; who was merely reacting. Stop burying your heads in the sand when serious governance flaws are been committed. What have you got to say about Police’s disregard of the law and court orders?

  6. NGOCC and Nawakwi never protected Madame Irene Kunda when President dressed her down in Muchinga.

    Do we all need to be job seekers and haters to be protected by NGOCC/ Do we need to destroy democracy by failing to run our own parties and start building one party state like Madame Nawakwi for our appetite for appointments and to be seen as real haters of HH?

    Zambians we must not be conduits of hate of Nawakwi to HH of the UDA choice of presidency.

  7. NGOCC only talks when instructed by GRZ. NGOCC we know you an extention of who ever is in power. where were you when GBM was busy beating the wife as usual very silent. So just shut up we dont need your opnion concentrate on finding ways to steal donor money. Nawakwi deserves what she got if it were me i would have gone further.as men we also need protection this Gender Issue is now infringing our rights also as men.

  8. What a party. On one hand their president is insulting women on the other hand his subordinates are threatening to organise gang rapes. Kalusa honnestly is turnishing the image of us CBU graduates. Hows does an educated man sink so low honestly?

    • Concerned Citizen, I am not saying Sata was right to go around with Panga weilding thugs to Chawama. Two wrongs do not make a right. If you did not see anything wrong with either HH’s or Kalusa’s or indeed Nawakwi’s language you and I have different ways of looking at things and I will respect that. But I will still maintain my view that these are national leaders who shd use better language than they are currently using. They are adults for crying out loud!

    • The issue by Kalusa should definitely be condemed in the strongest sense. But on what HH said, I think he does not owe Nawakwi an apology, why does she want to pretend vulnerable when she also insulted HH. So what was HH supposed to do?? Hit her where it hurts!!!

  9. let nawa neka apologise first then hh will also apologise on behalf of kalusa.hyenas why do you see wrongs only on one side of the coin

  10. The problem wit HH statement is scorn for women in general. if nawakwi was insulted as a nawakwi that cud not hav been a problem. thinking righly and in this age does HH the leader of the likely bigger opposition party by influence and likely next president of zed think women place is in the kitchen??

  11. @Kambole -I am with you on this one. Nawakwi, because of a job seeking agenda was the first to insult in the hope that the king of insult would notice and look at her favourably and HH’s statement was in response to her statement. HH has a wife who’s feelings should also be considered by NGOCC. How do think she feel to have her sweet heart called a pig?. Let Nawakwi apologise then you can have the right to ask HH to apologise. Anything short of that is hypocrisy. As for Kalusa, he is no longer UPND so I do not see the reason why they used former UPND other thatn to put the name of the part in disrepute 

  12. HALLO HELOE ALO CAN I HEAR A COMMENT. NAWAKWI HAS BEEN INSULTING HH NO ONE SPOKE. HH REPONDS THEN IT IS AN INSULT. THAT IS NO BEING REAL NGOCC. MWAFELUKA.

  13. UPND risks tainting its image – well who cares coz in any case in politics wat matters is popularity and watever works for that u go for it – sata did exactly that an dnow z in plot 1. the only problme is that 2morow this may not work coz zedians may wake up from their sleep.

  14. HH just stated the Fact the he is married! Ka Nawakwi ka lizoboli. She fought over a married man. Her reputation precedes her. Careful dear married men with ka Edith…..she’s a ferocious insatiable nipho!

  15. The highest paying job currently in Zambia is that of  crafting hate and tribal messages against HH.
    If you have been envying and struggling but failed or you are failing to appear in The Post,Zambia Daioly mail,Times of Zambia and on ZNBC radio and tv just consult for free Satan(real Satan) the Devil he will manufacture for you hate,tribal and jealous being in you to be able to easily attract the stated media.
    Mostly likely you may end up with a lucrative and well paying job from PF/Saint Michael .

  16. Testosterone filled rants block the possibility of connecting the dots. If HH uttered sexist comments he will more than likely be referred to as a ‘male chauvinistic pig’, by women. If his side kick is inciting the gang rape of a woman then it is expected there will be an outcry from any sane thinking individuals. Politicians should have thick skins but they don’t. They are adults but can behave like kids. They have morals but… oh wait a minute. I’ve got no comeback. All punches under the belt are foul. Clear enough? Sexism only makes sense to the sexist bigot. The question is are you one or or not.

  17. NGOCC,please get a life!!..the best should have been for you to have advised Nawakwi not to insult married men in public.

  18. If by any chance UPND came into power, I am afraid our women will be gang raped in Zambia by these uouths of EICH EICH. How can one say such nonsense, plan to do such, I think these are the same youths who are raping their own mothers shame. Atase ba EICH EICH naimwe tamwaka kule bwino.

  19. Public scorn on a woman that includes a statement that attacks all women is an insult to all women. The only time women agree about such an attack is when they themselves wish to see the woman taken down a peg or too and allow being b**chy to over ride the one thing they would never allow to be said of themselves. Double standard. No one in public office should resort to sexism. Hip hop Big Poppa pimp attitudes are better in music videos than as leaders asking to be respected by women and girls. Poor role models. The lot of them.

  20. SHAME ON YOU GROUP OF WIDOWS. WHY DID YOU NOT FIRST ASK NAWAKWI TO APOLOGISE FOR THE INSULTS SHE THROW ON H.H.

    WE ALL READ WHAT HH SAID AND WANT NAWAKWI SAID. WHO USED BAD LANGUAGE. CAN YOU WOMEN TEACH YOUR FELLOW WOMEN HOW TO RESPOND. NO WONDER YOU MARRIAGES FAIL.

  21. The problem is FRED M’membe ..He goes to Nawakwi to tell the Nation that no party can work with HH??? HH is wondering why a uselss girl like nawakwi should not try cooking since she is a failure..Is that insulting all women. if so then Nawakwi also insluted all men that they are pigs including sata kk, and membe since they are all men. NO APPOLOGY TO MAKE SORRY NGO FOOLS!

  22. When Zambia does well in soccer women offer free sex, what’s wrong now? Kalusa is former youth chairman how does HH come in, what a bunch of losers these women are, NGOCC my f**kin’ ass!

  23. Nawakwi called it for herslef.Let those men apologise after raping her.As for now its Nawakwi who should apologise.Just because Sata has promised you a post doesnt mean you should attack oppositionl leaders like yourself anyhow HH was discussing issues not individuals and there you are attacking him in person. Ugly woman.Go and cook impwa or finkubala if you have nothing to cook they are free in the bush

  24. I actually never thought the day when the government and other people would make HH relevant or the subject of national debate for anything other than the issues that weighed him down when he took over from the late Andy Mazoka. But then again, I didnt think it possible for Zambians to vote for Mr Sata, so I guess, we have not seen the last of the most bizarre occurences in our country. Its never say never.

  25. It doesnt matter who started it. The simple fact of the matter is that both Nawakwi and HH are being childish using such language against each other. You can attack a plitical opponent effectively withour using disparaging language. I personally would be ashamed of my father belittling a woman like that and in equaly measure, I’d be ahsmaed of my mother saying what Nawakwi said in retaliation. As for Kalusa, it beggers belief that he thinks a threat of rape is good politics on his behalf…..
    I persoanlly would never vote for any of these muppets

  26. Grillo and nawakwi are prostitutes.they dream HH marrying them.No HH is not a womaniser,just continue molesting young boys you 2 disgrace to women.You cant match HH.stupid husband snatchers,you just want to get attention from HH.This is how prostitutes behave.

  27. MMD youths threatened to gang rape Ms.Nawakwi in the former govt and again the threat to her,why? why only her,why? she is not a mother. A good mother can not call my father a pig. for sure not.

  28. LOOKS LIKE A REPEAT OFFENDER WHO DOESN’T LEARN FROM NOT TAMING HER MOUTH:
    .zambianwatchdog.com/2010/01/18/raping-nawakwi-threat-annoys-emilly-sikazwe/
    .zambianwatchdog.com/2010/01/20/nawakwi-to-take-her-rape-case-to-police/
    Add your http://www

  29. BA NGOCC BUT WHAT DO YOU EXPECT FROM A BITTER MAN WITH CHIEF ADVISERS SUCH AS WILLIAM BANDA? AS FAR AS I CAN REMEMBER, THESE GANG-RAPE THREATS ORIGINATED FROM MMD GOVERNMENT. UNPD IS A PARTY WITH IT’S LEADERSHIP WHO ARE A VIOLENT AND INSOLENT GROUP-ESPECIALLY IT’S PRESIDENT. THE GANG-RAPE THREATS HAVE RECENTLY BEEN INJECTED INTO THE UPND PARTY BY OBVIOUSLY, WILLIAM BANDA. WHILE HH NEEDS TO APOLOGISE, KALUSA NEEDS TO BE ARRESTED AND PROSECUTED FOR THIS. OTHERWISE THIS GANG-RAPING PLANS WILL CONTINUE AND BEAR UNWANTED FRUITS ONE DAY. WHO KNOWS MAYBE THESE CHAPS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE A FEW CASES WE HAVE RECENTLY HEARD IN ZAMBIA.

  30. leaders dont display your knowledge of insults in public.To Nawakwi i say thank you for your service to Zambia in which ever form or shape it has been but its Time you retired from Active Politics, Your Goal Posts are Misplaced, no longer in the field of Play.Stop embarrassing women and men in the process of your JOB seeking just pen down an Application and send it to State House HR. To HH don’t pay attention to image assassins for they will amplify the Wrong you will say in the process of defending yourself. HH just campaign u have my VOTE so of my family and western province.

  31. Apologise to who naimwe ba Grillo atase! You cant just go about kusabaila just because you are a woman,if any case,is it now an insult to remind you of your kitchen duties?

  32. This is normal practice for the under5 chap to refer to women as doormats and housewives, hence he doesn’t need to apologise to anyone. Just look at the chaps around him, how I feel for the clueless women in his party.

  33. SINCE WHEN DID “THE KITCHEN ” BECOME OFFENSIVE. IF YOU GO TO THE NEAREST RESTAURANT  YOU WILL FIND MEN IN THE KITCHEN AND WOMEN MOST LIKELY  SERVING/EATING THE FOOD.

  34. Ba Joe Kalusa how did you get into this, it only shows that you are finished. Stop support issues that don’t make sense. Just find a job and sustain your family not begging at the expense of insults.
    OK KALUSA your are a finished man, no wonder ba Kafubu Water and Sewerage fired you coz you don’t watch your big mouth.

  35. I always wonder what HH is made of ….a very pompous arrogant person. A person who just knows insults just like Nawakwi. Both of them are useless politicians who should not be given an vote. For this UPND cadre Joe Kalusa, I ask the police to speed up his arrest. These UPND cadres can rape Nawakwi bad, they can do anything as they continue to suffer from Bitterness and frustration. Police protect Nawakwi from these devils’s captains.

  36. @ “mchrtysa ” Zambians are stupid. Evidenced, SATA is in state house as president. How description do you give to such kind of voters other than that they are stupid. HH has done nothing wrong on Nawakwi. Thez women complainants are just a bunch hypocrits. Fortunately most zambians do not notice anyway.

  37. NGOCC I support your view on the rape threat though maybe the rest of your commentary should have stated……

    “the unfolding tension between Ms. Nawakwi and Mr. Hichilema is a source of concern and unfortunate especially that it is has deteriorated to the use of unpalatable language.
    …….NGOCC is of the view that the two leaders have a lot to offer and should therefore engage in dialogue in order to find a lasting resolve to their differences rather than insulting each other in the media.” PERIOD!

  38. Nawakwi is a married woman who got a man who pretended that he was not married. Don’t you all lie? Besides, he is a tonga; and this tribe is known for marrying more than one wife. So please stop calling her names. As for you people saying Nawakwi insulted HH, do you the meaning of ‘chauvinist pig”. It simply means a person who is a sexist and takes advantage of women. Are you grade 12s or form 5s like me and Nawakwi? Go back to school please.

  39. In as much as I don’t support HH’s outbursts against Nawakwi, I think that she owes him an apology too. You can’t have so-called “leaders” barking without restraint. Women are masters at taking advantage of their genda; when a task is tough they are quick to say, ‘women can’t do this’. Any other issue its ‘equal rights’. Eating with both hands! shaa

  40. And all of you condenming HH are silly and hypocrits. What insult is there in telling an idle woman to concentrate on her kitchen duties. Do not pretend that in your homes it is men who cook food. Isn’t cooking the nataural role of women in our society. HH stated the truth and for that you hate him. Nawakwi is indicplined and thinks that she is the only woman in Zambian politics when in actual sense is simply embarrassing herself. Leave HH alone to do his ploitics after all you have vowed that he will never rule. Shame on this woman for insulting a decently married man who did nothing wrong to her. Useless NGOCC, counsel you batchelor mate. Shamed women.

  41. Lusaka Times: English 101

    Paragraph 2 line 4

    Sexiest means sexually attractive or sexually aroused

    Sexist means gender discrimination

    Come on LT you have to do better than this, even simple English shuwa!!

  42. What is insulting about telling a woman to cook especially a stalker. The question is who cooks your food at home?. When you remind them of their responsibilty they say you are insulting,nonsese. Women accept that noble work at home.It is called job distribution and in this case wherever you go under the sun, women are the ones who cook food for the family- period. Dont make an issue out of nothing. It is Nawakwi who should be diciplined for her bad manners. Poorly brought up woman. Gender rights do not remove the role of women to cook food at their homes.

  43. Nawakwi is just being used as she awaits an appointment. My advice to HH is that leave that hired pf gun in the name of Nawakwi to the Upnd paryt officials & am confident that your team will squally handle her. We want you(HH) our president in waiting to be above such kind of politics, to be adressing real national issues the affect Zambian populace & not Nawakwi who is trying to pay back for the airticket for the Brazil trip. Go HH go.

  44. Even this NGO is a just used against HH by the current government but remember the more you put measures to bring HH down the more he stands out & the more popular he becomes. HH again leave Nawakwi to your spokespersons they can handle her, Kakoma & Mweetwa are great & intellengent people, they will reduce Nawakwi to her actual size.

  45. This blog is hijacked by testosterone high sado-masochists who derive great satisfaction from relegating brilliant femine intelligence to the kitchen. It is embarrassing that UPND has women among its members and they can still believe that they can rule this country with this kind of irreprehensible attitude as reflected here. Nawakwi was stating a fact that Mufumbwe should be left to the MMD to contest as it fell vacant after the resignation of Masumba, however, she had so much doubt in HH allowing this, as he cannot work with anyone, in her opinion. This is what HH was reacting to when he decided that being a woman she should be in the kitchen and not discussing politics! This is simply pitifully pathetic even for HH arse kissers! I cook for my husband out of love not inadequacy!

  46. HH should not apologize to Nawakwi.No way and no need.I personally have no problem with the police arresting Joe Kalusa.His big mouth betrayed him.Find a job,my bro. before you land yourself in bigger problems than these.Kalusa should infact apologize to HH for almost tarnishing the name of the party,UPND.I beg to submit.

  47. These frustrated widows, divorcees and singlets in NGOCC should get a life. Is this a real issue for you honestly. Human rights are abused and your mouths are zipped, a woman with a running mouth insults a man and the man tells her off and make it an issue? What a bunch of losers, talk about real issues that bring national development not randy seeking topics. These days there are male prostitutes if you need to be laid.

  48. Police should swiftly move in and arrest Kalusa forthwith. The evidence is already there why wait for HH and his untamed youth at large. Please move police, for this country has laws which need to be respected.
    The truth hurts, we shall see
    over the Mufumbwe by election what HH will do that our ever green Nawakwi has not enlightened us.
    VIVA WOMEN FOLK!!!! VIVA NAWAKWI NAKOKO PABANA BAKWE TAYA.

  49. Its is very clear by now in Zambia that HH is the next president & hence the grill as the pf vuvuzela called it. Am loving HH.

  50. In conclusion, HH has sadistic Personality disorder (SPD) as characterized by a pattern of gratuitous cruelty, aggression, and demeaning behaviors which indicate the existence of deep-seated contempt for other people and an utter lack of empathy. He is a sadists with “utilitarian”: leveraging his explosive violence to establish a position of unchallenged dominance. Unlike a psychopath he rarely use physical force in the commission of sadistic moves. Rather, his aggressiveness is embedded in an interpersonal context and is expressed in social settings. This narcissistic need for an audience manifests itself in other circumstances. Sadists strive to humiliate people in front of witnesses. This makes them feel omnipotent. That is who I see in HH, his unceasing negativity is his nature!!!

  51. @ “MundiaM ‘ you are an ***** and your basis of thinking is lame and not related to the topic at hand. You hate the truth and love the lies/deceptions.How many times has your darling CNP SATA disparaged women even worse than this and today he is your angel simply because of his deception. I will say it again, please it is the role of women to cook food at home whether out of love or otherwise.And there is no insult in this because it is the truth and only fools like you fail to appreciate matters. Why do you people love liers and hate those stating the truth. Try to refuse to cook at home and you will see what happens to your marraige the next day and this has nothing to do with your education or status.

  52. ‘chauvinistic male pig’ is a phrase used to describe a male person who thinks women are merely objects to be used for pleasure, esthetic value or labour.
    By labelling Hakainde CMP Edith did not literally mean that he was a pig.

  53. NGOCC are luck am not HH. I would have told them to go and hang. Why should HH apologise when the bi@tch Nawakwi was the first to continue attacking HH. Whatever they call you grillo go and hang and leave HH alone. Silly cow NGOCC.

  54. I think this equality business should be re-visited. I totally agree with the majority who argue that Edith must apologise first. Looking at the genesis of all this, one woulf ask why Nawakwi came out strongly with such tantrums. Why are the rights of men ignored in Zambia? Men have tolerated women for so long.

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