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Iris Kaingu asks for forgiveness from Zambians

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Iris Kaingu the woman convicted of producing an obscene video has asked for forgiveness from Zambians. Iris said that she is grateful for the support and sympathy she received from Zambians during her trail.

She said that she would not want another person to be caught up in a similar situation as hers. The daughter of MMD vice President Michael Kaingu said that she will now concentrate on her school and developing her business.

The 21 year old said that her parents are already making efforts to secure her a place in school outside the country.

Iris was this week found guilty and convicted on one count of making obscene cinematography films tending to corrupt morals by Lusaka Magistrate Prince Mwiinga.

ZNBC

117 COMMENTS

  1. Forgiveness for what? you are a single naturally beautiful girl with no child out of wedlock unlike most of these Zambian girls; you can do as you please, just focus on your future. Look around you or go to the local courts on Monday and you will be surprised at the adulterous cases that appear in front of the judges in this so called Christian nation.

  2. Move forward. It’s a harsh experience from which it is on you to progress for your own sake. The humility to ask for forgiveness is something people who have done damage to the lives of others the world over may never express but I’m with number 1. This is more about what you do with your opportunities that counts. Many others do not have those options so try and move forward. Other culpable parties escaped and left you exposed alone. Learn from that.

  3. forgiveness is divine; its well with you sis. your future is brighter than your past and there is no limit to what you can do and achieve in your life time. i believe what you have gone thru is a spring that has put you on a higher platform. the only grave mistake you can make is not to accept Jesus and trust God. put the past to the past and may God who has a plan for your life fulfill it to the fullest, you are blessed! 

  4. for all have sinned n fallen short of the glory of God. Nothing, not death, nor an angel, no evil, not anything your can fathorm, CAN SEPERATE YOU FROM THE LOVE GOD! JESUS IS THE ANSWER!

  5. You have a good life ahead of you young girl. I know you didn’t do this intentionally, someone stupid who had no reason to put your privacy in public is the one to blame. I feel bad how you case was handled, be careful. Make sure you know who your true finds are next time. For all have sinned, and no one can judge in a bad way. Be strong and move on.

  6. Learnt a lesson? Never play with cameras when you are naked, OK? Good, now go hide somewhere and medidate, study hard and try to redeem yourself. Be praying to the Lord your God.

  7. Wahesu you are a child of God and ” all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.” Romans 8.. If God forgives who are we not to?? The most important thing is to learn from one’s mistakes and do one’s best to avoid the same mistake. It is well my sister!!!

    You are young and capable of greater things. Remain steadfast in God and His mercy and love will guide you and hold you strong!!! Kozo!!!

  8. Sure Iris, better leave Zambia and change your citizenship, they treated you worse than a Congolese refugee. Leave Zambia tomorrow, what are you waiting for? And its better you go to Europe, don’t go to gettos of USA, you may be tempted to video record again.

  9. Come to Norway mwana.Here you will be in safe hands.You can live in my apartment for the first two months.Rent free and no one to steal your new DVD.

  10. You’re forgiven Kaingu you’re actually better than most people.Rememer the guy who prayed about how better he was and the other guy was sorry for how sinful he had been? You’ll be surprised Kaingu at how many “hollier than thou” zambians who won’t be in heaven.

  11. Iris Kaingu if you are reading, you can walk into any of the Western embassies in Lusaka and ask for assistance in the form of a scholarship so as you can focus on studies for next 4 years; trust me the world is not full of homophobes and hypocritics like in Zambia.

    • I luv this man.
      The whole purpose of embassies.

      She is ripe to hit back at the community that rejected and humiliated her.

      lovely piece of work.

  12. You were forgiven a long time ago. Its an outrage what you have been put through at your age when you neither uploaded nor distributed the video. Just be careful with silly boys next time and try to be careful what you get up to, focus on your studies and making the most of your life. You have gone through this for a reason and have come out higher – trust God and make peace with Him and yourself. Dont care what anyone else says. Stay blessed my sister, the world is your oyster!

  13. Come to Australia Iris much better place than Europe and America ,but i won’t stay with you my wife will be very jealous ,you are too beautiful.Just reform young lady we all have our skeletons including those chaps who arrested and judged you harshly.We love you .Please do not go to Muchinga University please,please!

  14. Forgiven, move on gal, hey by the way I did it too but was never caught! Many people out there are doing it only for their own use and NOT for the public consumption. Some people are noisy but deep inside they know they’ve done it before! There is no law that stops you from filming yourself and your boy in private but this must remain private. I can now imagine you hanging on to that copy of your movie for a future reference! ;)

  15. We are human, able to make mistakes at one time or another! Past experiences are there for our lessons. Don’t regret for something you cannot change, Iris, work on changing your future.

  16. You will rise again and become a good girl, Stay focused and look up to good , he will build you up again, He will makr you clean as white as shown

  17. Zambians…what are you forgiving and why. This girl should not be asking anyone for forgiveness and those of you forgiving are fools. Girl was of legal and so was homeboy. Infact how come homeboy had no case to answer. Kaingu, i ask that you forgive us zambians because this case was never about justice. I can understand the college expelled her because it brought the institution in disrepute and ultimately they reserve the right to addmission. However there was no legal basis to bring your case before the courts. You are a victim of politics. In a real democracy the courts are made up of people who uphold the law and protect the rights of the citizens of that jurisdiction.If anyone had a case to answer it would have been that ***** who breached your trust and pulished without your consent

  18. BA LT, THERE’S A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ‘TRAIL’ AND ‘TRIAL’. TRAIL MAY MEAN A LEAD OR PATH WHILE TRIAL MEANS SOMEONE OR A GROUP OF PEOPLE FACING CRIMINAL OR CIVIL CHARGES AND IS/ARE UNDERGOING COURT PROCEEDINGS. MANY A PEOPLE HAVE MADE SUGGESTIONS THAT YOU EMPLOY A QUALIFIED JOURNALIST. THERE ARE MANY GRADUATES IN ZAMBIA WHO NEED JOB BUT YOU ARE HINDERING THEM DUE TO YOUR NEPOTISM ATTITUDE. THEY CAN WORK FOR/WITH YOU PROFESSIONALLY. ACT B4 IT’S TOO LATE.

  19. YOUR APOLOGY SHOULD BE WELCOMED TO ANY WELL MEANING ZAMBIAN. HENCE, I PERSONALLY ACCEPT YOUR APOLOGY. IN FACT I FURTHER CONGRATULATE THE JURY FOR HAVING BEEN SO REASONABLE IN GIVING A SENTENCE WHICH WILL BUILD AND NOT DESTROY YOU. THEY WERE WISE MEN AND WOMEN WHO PASSED VERY GOOD JUDGEMENT. WE ALL LEARN FROM MISTAKES AND LET THIS ONE BE A BIG LESSON FOR YOU. I HOPE YOU AND YOUR PARENTS WILL CHOOSE A VERY GOOD COUNTRY WITH MORALS TO AVOID SLIDING BACK TO WHAT YOU WERE INVOLVED IN. AVOID GOING TO ANY WESTERN COUNTRY AND PROBABLY GO TO NAMIBIA. HERE THEY KNOW YOU AND THEY ARE LOOKING AT YOU AS SOMEONE WHO CAN BE EMPLOYED IN SEX INDUSTRY- I AM NOT SURE IF YOU CAN STAND TEMPTATIONS IN THESE VERY FREE SOCIETIES. SO, GO TO A MORALLY DESCENT AFRICAN COUNTRY. I WISH YOU THE BEST.

  20. #18, I DON’T THINK THEY JUDGED HER HARSHLY. THE JUDGES WERE VERY REASONABLE. THEY ALLOWED TIME TO REFORM. I AM PRETTY SURE THEY PUT THEMSELVES IN THE POSITION OF HER PARENTS (OR ANY OTHER PARENT FACED WITH A SIMILAR SITUATION) AND CONSIDERED HOW THEY WOULD FEEL IF THEY WERE IN THERE TIGHT SHOES. FOR ME THIS WAS GREAT RESPONSIBLE JUDGEMENT ON THE WORLD SCENE. THE JURY SET VERY HIGH JUDICIAL STANDARDS. OTHER COUNTRIES SHOULD LEARN FROM ZAMBIA. A SIMILAR JUDGEMENT SHOULD HAVE BEEN PASSED IN THE CASE OF THE TWO MALAWIAN GAY MEN INSTEAD OF SENDING THEM TO JAIL AND BACK-TRACK, AGAIN. AND BE FORCED TO ACCEPT GAYISM BY THE WESTERN WORLD BY THEIR WITHDRAWAL OF AID. THERE WAS NO WISDOM IN JAILING THEM.

  21. I don’t really understand why Iris thinks going out of the country would be a damage control measure, I mean she better off going to Muchinga University than to any other developed country, the world is now one global village – simply googling her name is what it take to know her; unless if she is to change her identity. If I was her I would simply learn my lesson and move on, no need to apologize to anyone for being me. Probably would hang around Lusaka and let the haters hang cause I’ve been set free…!

  22. If the almighty God can forgive then who are we mere mortals not to forgive?Move on Kaingu and let the judgemental sinners roast in their own ignorance.

  23. No need to appologise. Did she sleep with any of you? Leave the person alone people. So many people out in zed who have been doing wrong things secretly yet because she was exposed and you think she deserves an apology.
    Many Zambian men/women who have commited adultery with house maids bar girls, sister in law etc list goes on, non of these people has come in open to applogise. Iris if you read this please consider coming to study in Aussie otherwise in zed you will not find it fit.
    Take care and stay well iris all the best.

    • This is the best comment you’ve ever made, mushota. It’s more philosophical and less religious though but it’s alright…certainly appealing to an agnostic like you and I.

  24. GOD CREATED US WITH A PRECIOUS GIFT OF DEVELOPING, ADAPTING AND CHANGING.

    MY DEAR IRIS, WE ARE WORSE SINNERS THAN YOURSELF, ITS JUST THAT NO ONE CAPTURED WHAT WE DO ON CAMERA.

    MY ADVISE IS LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKE, DEVELOP, ADAPT AND CHANGE AND YOU WILL BE A VERY RESPONSIBLE CITIZEN AS WE HAVE BEEN.

  25. if i wasnt married i would have proposed to Iris. she came out a wiser woman after this trial. what she did is something that nearly everyone has done. some have done even worse. the only problem is that it was caught on camera.
     go Iris. you can pick yourself up and still do good with your life.

  26. I forgive her but being beautiful and the way her trial had progressed should not be the passport for her to go to any Western embassy and seek scholarship. What about the boy? Should he also go and seek scholarship? Irish’s case could have ended long time ago if she had pleaded guilty to the charge but she wanted to be smart. The judicial system has actually treated her well. Why do we want to treat those who do bad things as heroes? I don’t condemn her but I don’t want to treat her as a heroe to be given special privileges which decent moral girls can’t be given.

  27. this whole thing ended too well for and it hurts me. two days in jail and a mere K10,000,000 for someone with more money in their pockets that was not enough punishment. it makes her feel above the law. i wish she swept the streets of Cairo road for some time. each day of sweeping could have reminded her of never to be a hero but alas that kind of punishment is for a selected few. the law of this land stinks with corruption.

    • SADIST! I bet you are an alduterer or paedophile who hasnt been exposed yet, what would stiffer punishment or embarassment do for you personally? She didnt upload nor distribute the frigging video, it was a politically motivated miscarriage of justice, initiated by your satanic leader (fred mmembe) from the onset you *****!

    • Fool, how could you say such a thing. Alaaa, what about the sins you commit in the darkness. My friend we all know youre not perfect, so before you make a suggestion on the pretty lady we have to deal with you first. kupusa….

  28. Let the person who put you through all this experience three times as much torment, may the Lord All Mighty, safe guard you!

  29. THAT SUCKING NATHANS DICK IRI’S WENT ON TO TURN OFF THE CAMERA AS SHE WAS SMILING IN HAPPINESS FOR HAVING EXPERIENCED SUCH A REAR MOMENT IN HER LIFE TIME ,NEVER WAS SHE AWARE THAT ONE DAY THIS WILL BACK FIRE .ATI IFIAKULYA UBUSHI TUFIMWENA KUMALUSHI>>>>>

  30. AFTER SUCKING NATHANS DICK IRI’S WENT ON TO TURN OFF THE CAMERA AS SHE WAS SMILING IN HAPPINESS FOR HAVING EXPERIENCED SUCH A REAR MOMENT IN HER LIFE TIME ,NEVER WAS SHE AWARE THAT ONE DAY THIS WILL BACK FIRE .ATI IFIAKULYA UBUSHI TUFIMWENA KUMALUSHI>>>>>

  31. IRIS U WANT ZAMBIANS TO FORGIVE U FOR WHAT? SAME APPLIES WHEN SOME FAILS PREGNANT ELO ALANDA ATI INSHAISHIBE BULYA BUPUBA COZ ZAMBIA IS A CHRISTIAN NATION AND ON TOP OF THAT UR FATHER IS ONE OF THE TOP OFFICIALS IN THE MMD ELO ULECITA IFYAPUPA WALITUMPA SANA MWAICHE IWE AYI ULEKWATAKO INSONI.NAIMWE BA TUMFWEKO WHY DONT U SHOW MY MSGS THIS TIME ARROUND MUCITEKO IFYAMANO COPY!

  32. i am personally happy that u are out. “he that is condemned publicly must be justified publicly.” but make sure u marry that ka same boy with all fairness.

  33. The door is closed and forget about it my daughter. Look in future for the open door ahead of of you is full of great opportunities.

  34. We are very quick to judge others. We are leaving comments on this blog either because we know what it like or we have watched the clip of this young girl. The case was a waste of public resources in my opinion. My only advice to the young lady is that next time please use protection and teach your friends and who ever watched you safe sex. Young lady, make it your mission to promote safe sex because we know young or old people can not control themselves.

  35. These are the best comments I have ever read on all online publications.

    That’s why its always best to ask for forgiveness ,when wrong.

    God Bless Zed.

    United we stand divided we fall.

  36. @3 and 8 Umumbulu,
    You have applied the scriptures so correctly unlike so many hypocrites who pretend that they are free from sin. Iris has done the right thing to ask for forgiveness. There is no doubt she learnt her lesson and now she can move on. We wish her well.

  37. Irish kaingu go outside the country and produce even better pono. the previous edition had a poor camera and your voice was not audible. at least outside its legal. you can be a millionaire in 2 years or less

  38. Bembas say ukutangila tekufika. You have a bright future my dear. But tell your father he should have changed bad laws when he was in power. See how bad laws can do . This a lesson to all those supporting bad laws in Zambia as tomorrow it can be you in trouble

  39. School outside Zambia, i hope its in moslem country where such practices are limited or are not allowed otherwise she may jst go for biggger ones. Uwakaleme takeleka. Anyway… forgiven

  40. You are forgiven. Never let your past be a hinderance and never hold on to your past. you are too young to get stuck on this.We all have made big mistakes in life and unfortunately yours was found out. I wish you well.

  41. Why is the media following her up. Leave this gal alone now. Let her alone plz. The more you bring this the more i feel for her. The girl to me was innocent becoz she never had the intention to sell that video. Stop injuring her afterall some of us we do more than what she did. Pliz leave this gal out of the media. Let her start a new life. Can you imagin that even kids have started talking about this issue just because of the media. I advise Iris to keep away from the media.

  42. Just forge ahead young woman.The sky is the limit.That was just one of the hurdles in your journey through life.No one is perfect….just let bygones be bygones.Good luck !

  43. Forgiveness for what? It’s Zambians who were supposed to be asking for forgiveness from Iris for their hypocrisy and pretentious. No wonder this country will never develop and 90% will go burn in hell for living such a two-faced double life. It is disgusting! All these holier than thou hypocrites have stolen from the poor; they have raped; lied; cheated; fornicated and committed adultery and even murdered. And yet they have the nerve to judge Iris and send her to jail.
    I said it before that this barbaric stone-age period law shouldn’t exist in the first place. If I make a video of myself in the comfort and privacy of my own home and some steals it and uploads it to the internet, why should I go to jail for it? This is stoopid!

  44. Am sure if one had to hack and expose every zedian computers, abroad, those still at home, the pipo in high offices, in general every zedian, i bet what would be found could cause shock, ala mwandi do not even ever feel ashamed, we are all similar, our deeds might even be worse, we havent just been caught rather exposed! come to europe, forget America, Aussie and the rest, you will have all the rights that no one anywhere has, apart from us in europe, here even Murderes and serial killers have more rights than you in zambia and africa put together.

    • mmm kochana w europie Gdzie?? Iris go on with your life. God is full of luv and mercy nothing else. Take care dear and don`t make your self so cheap. Know when, where and who you are sharing with your stories.

  45. Why? You have nothing to apologise for. It is the rest of the hypocrites who owe you an apology for prying into your private life. The man who leaked the video needs to be prosecuted instead.

  46. NO NEED TO APOLOGIZE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. OTHERS WERE SCREWED LIVE ON BIG BROTHER BUT WERE NOT PUNISHED. GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. FORGET ABOUT THE PAST. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES. LOVE YOU. 

  47. Why apologies when you have always claimed to be innocent and you had to waste the courts time. Well you have to ask God to forgive you for committing fornication which is against the commandments of God. But your ka video will never be erased from the internet unfortunately!

  48. you arebeta than Mushota who boots of making millions of dollars weekly on giving her forbiden fruit kubaZugu

  49. Does this mean she is an ex convict? Hey, what kind of offense? Pipes and piping. Sucking and…

  50. Go IRIS to another country where there is no monkey jungle justice. You will be a star elsewhere. Ask Kim kadashian, Paris Hilton and all the Hollywood stars. They rose to prominence by sexntapes. now just be careful that pono movie makers don’t recogmise you and lure with money to make them some of the sex stuff. By the way, you have taught many zambians how to make sex, and have live ed many bedrooms. Everything happy
    end for a reason though you may ask why it had to be you that God has used to make live wonderful sex

  51. #1 Uncle Pipos,there is nothing wrong with children out of wedlock. Children were around before wedlock was invented as a social control mechanism. Your comment about ‘so called Christian nation’ is completely right in a lot of respects.

  52. Forgiveness a gift from God. We as humans have forgiven you but seek it more from the giver of life. Be good in your future endeavors now.

  53. Iris do not cry anymore, I know it is not easy, but forge ahead and God will bless you. There are a lot of people out there who have done worse things than this one, they are actually devils and wouldn’t want to know. You are child of God and just know that He loves you so much. God bless you my sis.

  54. Iris do not cry anymore, I know it is not easy, but forge ahead and God will bless you. There are a lot of people out there who have done worse things than this one, they are actually devils and wouldn’t want to know. You are child of God and just know that He loves you so much. God bless you my sis.

  55. Move on child of God, it’s just excitement that make you err. We forgive you, there is worse happening in zambia than what you did. All these hypocritical fathers of ours judging you have graveyards in their cupboards ! 

  56. Niece, you are forgiven, but never indulge yourself in such dirty business that will spoil your reputation and dignity. Concentrate on your studies and never be fooled by young men to be involved in such obscene activities.

  57. Chi Iris naiwe dont stop making videos we can make one last act and sell it to American sites and we make a lot of money!!! Not that foolish boy Nathan who wanted just to fool you…me am real and we are making a lot of efforts we include you muli IRIS Rloaded !!!

  58. God blesss you young lady. You just did what every body does except that its never shown on cameras. We all have done stupid things in our lives at one time. Ask your dad to send you to Mzansi for sho.

  59. my dear u didnothing compared to POLITICIAN who got to POWER by cheating MILLIONS OS ZAMBIANS living in ABJECT POVERTY.You killed no one.

  60. @ 31, Iris doesn’t need to change her name and she doesn’t need to conceal her identity, universities in developed countries don’t care about what she did. They would be more concerned about terrorism and drugs if you ask me. Iris, like the woman caught in the very act of adultery in the bible, if you are sincere with your request Romans 8:1-2 is yours to meditate on, Christ does not condemn you but he says GO AND SIN NO MORE.

  61. M?< is a bad man .she exposed the young lady in his paper as his children will never commit any offence in their lives. the future will tell. iris do not take things for granted .when you go to school it not time to have sex it time to build your future.please sin no more .

  62. When we confess our sins,God is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.(1 John 1:9). My question is are you sorry for committing fornication OR for getting caught up in the aftermath. As long as your confession is guinuine you will be forgiven, at the end of the day the most important thing is to seek God’s forgiveness and forgive yourself too. Don’t let the devil run you out of town. It’s good you have your family’s support.

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