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Wife denies hubby sex after circumcision

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CIRCUMCISION  may have health benefits for both men and women but one Lusaka husband’s decision to undergo the procedure left him sexless in his marriage.
Dickson Kapeso, 30, of Kanyama township told the court that his wife started denying him his conjugal rights after he got circumcised in 2013.
Speaking before justices Daniel Phiri, Abraham Phiri and Sara Nyendwa, Kapeso said his wife, Carol Phiri, 30, of Makeni Villa started refusing to engage in sexual relations with him for undergoing circumcision, accusing him of being promiscuous.
Kapeso said out of ignorance, Phiri believes circumcision is a passport for a man to misbehave because he cannot easily get sexually transmitted infections. He said he now has to fight with his wife for them to engage in sexual relations.
This is in a case in which Kapeso sued Phiri for divorce. Kapeso said the two have been married since 2003 and have five children together.
“I have stayed for six weeks without sexual intercourse because my wife fears she can get infected. We have now been apart for two years. I failed to stay that long without enjoying my conjugal rights, so I decided to re-marry.”
He complained that during the time they lived as man and wife, Phiri did not follow traditional rites on how to warn her husband when she was on her menses.
“I expected her to hang a string of red beads on the wall but she wouldn’t. In the night I would pounce on her only to find myself littered with blood,” he said.
But Phiri said Kapeso has been in the habit of abandoning her and their children.
She said he did the same in 2013 when she had a two months old baby.
“Our child is now two years and five months but he has never seen the baby in court,” she said.
The court granted divorce and ordered Kapeso to pay Phiri K8,000 as compensate Phiri.

(DailyMail)

14 COMMENTS

  1. And I quote ” I expected her to hung a string of red bead on the wall, but she wouldn’t. In the night, I would pounce on her, only to find myself littered with blood ” these local court cases, AWE SURE.

  2. The greatest disadvantage of circumcision is the awful loss of sensitivity when the foreskin is removed. . . . On a scale of 10, the intact penis experiences pleasure that is at least 11 or 12; the circumcised penis is lucky to get to 3.

  3. I am sorry I had it done. . . . The sensitivity in the glans has been reduced by at least 50 percent. There it is, unprotected, constantly rubbing against the fabric of whatever I am wearing. In a sense, it has become callused. . . . I seem to have a relatively unresponsive stick where I once had a sexual organ.

  4. Circumcision is the amputation of the foreskin, not extra skin but an integral part of the penis; measuring 15 square inches in an adult, over half the penile skin, including the most sensitive parts of the penis. The foreskin is packed with nerve endings, special anatomical features like the ridged band and has a unique elastic gliding action, allowing it to slide on itself and act like lube. This action is what most males use to masturbate with. Circumcised males use what skin they have left, except those who are cut so tightly that they have to use lube or just rub it dry. The intact male can stroke the entire length of his penis using his foreskin and also has the option to use lube too, if he wants to. During intercourse the foreskin acts like lube on entry and may act as a dam,…

  5. preventing lubricating secretions escaping from the v a g i n a. In one study women reported that s e x with an intact partner was gentler and more satisfying since he doesn’t have to thrust as hard to feel enough stimulation. Removing the foreskin turns the surface of the glans from an inner mucosal membrane to outside skin. Newly circumcised adults usually go through some weeks of intense discomfort as the glans is constantly exposed to rubbing on clothing, until it develops a thicker keratin layer and becomes less sensitive.

  6. my question is:
    why on earth is this circumcision campaign so prominent in africa, particularly zambia, and not in europe or america.
    i do not trust these campaigns at all having in mind what happened in libya sometime back.

    • in the west, male children are circumcised when they r still babies. most men, if not 99% in the west are circumcised my dear. same as congo DR. thats the main reason their hiv prevalence rate is extremely low even though they are more promiscuous than us.

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