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Girl 18 commits suicide

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A girl has committed suicide in Sinazongwe district in Southern Province.

The mother to the girl Learner Siapala told ZANIS at the funeral house that her daughter drunk some poison to kill herself.

Mrs Siapala identified her daughter as Chipo Siapala who is 18 years old and she was in grade 12 at Maamba high School.

She said her daughter committed suicide on Friday and the doctor at Maamba Hospital pronounced her dead at 22:00 hrs.

Ms. Siapala who resides in Maamba Township explained that on the fateful day her daughter came home around 20:00 hrs and his father rebuked her for coming late.

She said from that incident she answered rudely and decided to go to sleep.

Ms. Siapala said her daughter began to behave abnormally and complained of severe stomach pains at 21:00 hours.
“I am surprised that a young girl can decide to kill herself without a proper cause, she had everything and this year she was supposed to complete grade 12 now she is no more,” Mrs Siapala said.
But the friends to the girl said her parents cut her hair to prevent her from moving at night and it induced her to commit suicide.

In February a 57 year old man also committed suicide in Sinazongwe district.

Edward Nkashi the brother to the deceased identified him as Henry Mulernga who hanged himself to a tree at the fisheries compound.
In another development, A 30 year old man has been killed by a Crocodile in Sinazongwe.

The Cousin to the deceased Enos Hachalwa said in an interview that Chrispin Chibotakusama was killed while he was fishing at night on Lake Kariba on Saturday.

Mr. Hachalwa said Chibotakusama of Simupande village in Chief Sinazongwe’s area was caught by the reptile while he was trying to remove the fish from the net.

He said the crocodile swallowed his hands and threw him in the Lake.

Mr. Hachalwa explained that the friend who was with the deceased failed to wrestle with the crocodile despite throwing stones at it.
He noted that the incident occurred around 22 hours on Saturday and the body was retrieved the following morning on Sunday.

The cousin to the deceased disclosed that the body had deep cuts in the hands and in the chest.

He said the other incident of a person being caught by a crocodile in Simupande village occurred in 1998.
However, cases of people being killed by crocodiles in Sinazongwe district have increased.
Last month a family of three people including a pregnant woman was killed by the crocodile in Chiyabi area.

Sinazongwe district Vice Council Chairperson Fisher Zimana said a crocodile broke the arm Ms Mukili Kalandi and was admitted in Mammba Hospital where she died together wit her baby from the reptile’s wounds.
(ZANIS)

38 COMMENTS

  1. Where are the social welfare people to do a thorough study of events that led to this young girl’s demise via suicide? When will chiluba kill himself? I can’t wait for a thug like him to go away for good instead of a young victim of the IMF/WB social destruction models supported by Chiluba and the mmd.

  2. hahahahahaaa!!Chiluba to kill himself?the chap is enjoying life with taxi payers’ money.too bad the girl killed herself..she was probably pregnant.u’ll burn in hell fire!!

  3. Sad nyuz. condolences to the families involved.

    Just look up to the good Lord God in these trying times. He will surely comfort you.

  4. #1, why do u suggest ftj to kill himself. he has all the rights to live like u and everyone else. if he has committed crimes against the state, God will judge him accordlingly. mind the way u pass your comments.

  5. Young ones please commiting suicide is not the solution, but to take all your problems to the Lord. You were created in the image of God. Do you really understand how special you are. There is no sin too big for God to forgive. Think of Solomon and many others in the Bible who had committed sins which according to own understanding would think were too big for God to forgive, but ended up being important figures in the Bible. Please take all your burdens to the Lord. If there is anyone in Chipo’s situation now pray to God for guidance.

  6. Its high time Parents learn on how to communicate to teen agers! Its a very difficult age to control coz they need some space and they think they can do anything they want without been pressured by anyone! In developed countries we see naught teen been take to camps such as brat camps or rehab,just to shape their lives! Parents should be exposed to morden societs and try to feet their past in it and be able to talk openly to their children!Customs also plays an important roll in todays children,they need guides and detailed explanation of certain myths and beliefs.They learn knew things everyday and practice,so it us parent to blame if our children end up doing bad thngs.Listen en Talk2 them

  7. #1 ahahaahaha. ftj and sata aren’t suicidal characters…. ba lusaka times “normal more”?? r u sure thats what mrs siapala said?

  8. My sister committed suicide in 2006 and left a six year old child. She had tried it before years back and it was a failed attempt but this time she finally managed. So to you all who ever think of committing suicide….STOP! Once you harbour those thoughts in your mind they are bound to happen. You are what you think, the thoughts you harbour will be your rewards so watch out. Sometimes I get angry with my sister for what she did she could have talked to someone especially that she even had a child to care for. Imagine this young child knows the mother is no more and always wonders why she did what she did. Probably thinks she never loved him.

  9. THE TEENAGER WAS A VICTIM OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE THAT DAY. TODAYS TEENAGERS ARE GROWING UP IN A MODERN SOCIETY THAT HAS NEW WAYS OF DOING THINGS. NOW IF PARENTS DONT WANT TO MOVE WITH TIME, CONFLICTS OF INTEREST BETWEEN THEM AND THEIR CHILDREN IS CREATED AND THUS THE HIGH RATE OF SUICIDE CASES ON THE RISE IN OUR COUNTRY. I URGE OUR SOCIAL WORKERS TO PUT MORE EFFORTS IN SENSITIZING PARENTS IN THE COMMUNITIES ON THE IMPORTANT ASPECTS OF PARENTING.

    THE MODERN DAY PARENTS SHOULD LISTEN TO THEIR CHILDREN, AND OBSERVE THEIR BEHAVIOURAL PATTERNS. IT COULD BE THE GIRL WAS EARLIER RAPED ON THAT FATEFUL DAY.WE DONT KNOW AND ONLY THE LORD KNOWS!!

    MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY.

  10. suicide is not a solution to any problem.also parents play an important role they should be friendly and approachable to their kids.so when a child has a problem he or she will be able to discuss it with them,most teenage girls in zambia cant freely talk with there fathers,unlike here in europe,the world is changing its about time to get away with some useless tradition and culture

  11. PEOPLE MUST UNDERSTAND THAT SAYING TO THE DEAD LIKE REST IN PEACE IS A WORD OF MOCKERY.BECAUSE THE BIBLE SAYS THAT THE DEAD ARE CONSCIOUS OF NOTHING BUT THE LEAVING ARE THE ONES WHO KNOW THAT THEY WILL DIE.
    SO MIND YOU THAT YOU CAN´T WISH FOR PEACE WHERE THERE´S NO WAR,NO HUNGER,NOE AIDS,OR ANY KIND OF MISSERY.YOU CAN ONLY WISH FOR PEACE WHERE THERE IS CATASTROPHY LIKE IN IRAQ. SO MAY THE DEAD REST IN PEACE IS FAKE.

  12. PEOPLE MUST UNDERSTAND THAT SAYING TO THE DEAD “LIKE REST IN PEACE” IS A WORD OF MOCKERY.BECAUSE THE BIBLE SAYS THAT THE DEAD ARE CONSCIOUS OF NOTHING BUT THE LEAVING ARE THE ONES WHO KNOW THAT THEY WILL DIE.
    SO MIND YOU THAT YOU CAN´T WISH FOR PEACE WHERE THERE´S NO WAR, NO HUNGER, NO AIDS,OR ANY KIND OF MISSERY.YOU CAN ONLY WISH FOR PEACE WHERE THERE IS CATASTROPHY LIKE IN IRAQ. SO MAY THE DEAD REST IN PEACE IS FAKE.

  13. Too bad too young to die,the weights of this life get the weak,we need to be strong,why should cutting of the hair make you die,crazy,she probably was alco-holing,coming home late,cause she felt she was of age,gat damn she should have listened to her parents to live long,now she paid the price,rest in peace

  14. Do’t worry….her space was filled later by a birth in Sinazongwe!!! The law of nature….she also left space and less competition for other living human being. She further wanted to spreading the HIV virus, well she might have done well to cut short her life…mmmmmh i have a loose tongue!!!

  15. First and foremost: it’s a loss to the family and country at large. Who knows what this girl was going to be. However face facts and realize how stupid she was. Katubwesesha sana kunuma ka makaka!

    Secondly, it’s very incorrect to use an assumption of her being under emotional or … abuse as reason to kill her self. Very stupid girl!!!

    Worse still, to try and force parents to adapt to their children is totally unacceptable. The children should be the ones adapting to the parents. It’s so stupid indeed of her to have killed her self. I for one believe that there’s more to it than just the stated story.

  16. #22 Contd …

    Whether an expression of anger or not, that was extremely stupid! If they made her kill her self, too bad! What joy do they then see in it?

    Most of today’s kids are just too “modern” and seemingly untouchable, in the name of victim support and human rights. Ifwe twalepumwa … may be that’s why twacenjelelako! We are not Westerners …we are Africans please. Baka kalipileko ati oooyooo! Alweni nama chongololo traditions yenu.

    “You are how far your parents’ discipline went in you”. Stupid little dead girl…no excuse for Suicide, very stupid indeed!!!

  17. To all the suicide bombers lol suicide attempters…since you seem to have nothing to leave for….

    There are 5 ways to easier do that:

    1.Drink a teaspoon of Tumda mbuzi
    2.Cross Zambezi river right near the crocodiles
    3.Eat a whole buck of Mulberries (Marubeni)
    4. If female give Sata a french kiss while if male kiss that former MMD cadre Nakawala
    5. Try to touch Milingo’s nipple before you hit the bucket…just for final blessings

  18. @#14 Struggling Comedian, That is real comedy ehn??

    It is very sad that young people decide to take their own lives this way. The remaining young girls should understand that many a time parents impose some restrictions on their movements out of love. Surely girls are too young at 18 to think they know it all! Though sweet, they should know consequences could be fatal!

  19. I feel there was more to the story which her parents nor all of us can know for us to safely conclude our ideas.Cutting of hair canm not annoy someone to an extent of commiting suicide. Her firends could know better. so teenegers, be careful.

  20. I think you all got me wrong. I’m saying we’ll be avoiding alot of deaths if we warned people that if they commit suicide, we’ll hang them until they’re declared dead.

  21. Struggling Comedian, i have had enough of your to ma dry jokes!

    Their sooooooooooooooooooo boring plzzzzzzzzz. I think i am developing a headache mwana, Plz stop this nonsense ok.

    Nway back to the issue at hand. # 28 i think you are right, there is more to this story. The parents must have done something horrible to her and not just cutting her hair. we need more infor from the Police in order to close this case.

    Struggling Comedian shouldnt be allowed to participate on the forum.

    Good day.

  22. Yes # 30 take a chill pill unless you have PMS…I am enjoying Struggling Comedian’s vibes if its boring for ya go blog another msg…..

    Its so nice to read something funny after all this seriousness in the world.
    I agree with Ex Zimbo…looks like you may need #25 ways at the rate you are going!

  23. M.H.S.R.I.P. Its sad to the Grade twelve pupil after all the efforts the parents have put in her education then she decides to kill her self.Hooooo’ what a loss. Young girls watch out don’t think that when you kill yourself then it’s the end of it, there is another world were you will face charges, and there is no rest until you unswer all the charges, and if you are found guit you are thrown in the fire of hell. So you are better here and ask God to guide you.

  24. its unfair to put the blame on the parents,they were simply doing their God given duty of disciplining their child.
    teenagers by nature have very volatile emotions.its in the heat of such emotions mixed with lack of selfworth and probably the need to “punish” the parents that most teenage suicides occur.

    ironically…its usually the ones who have shelter,clothing,food and people who care for them that decide to just end it.

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