Renowned marriage counselor Mary Nyongo has lamented the development where financially handicapped young men in Zambia are marrying well-to-do widows.
In an interview yesterday, Ms.Nyongo who is fondly known as Mama Nyongo in the music circles, says poverty is causing a lot of young men in Zambia to fall in love with wealthy women who most of the times have been widowed.
Ms.Nyongo said the development has a terrible impact in that such relationships do not last and the young people who fall prey to material traps of elderly women end up contracting the virus that cause AIDS.
“Financially handicapped young men in Zambia are marrying well-to-do widows” Nyongo said
And in a related development, Chairperson of Twafweni Villages Outreach Ministry Given Nakazwe says many girls and boys who have entered into early marriages have done so because of their insatiable appetite for sex.
Ms. Nakazwe says early marriages should be discouraged adding that most parents are to blame for marrying off their girl-children because of material gain.
“Many girls and boys who have entered into early marriages have done so because of their insatiable appetite for sex” Nakazwe said.
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Ba mayo aba, self contradiction. On one hand you say its poverty, then on the other you say insatiable fimo fimo.
Be specific & to the point. Its just poverty chapwa!!!
mbuya belengeni bwinoi, there are two people speaking about two not the same things. by the way bayama kumushi balemiposha, ati akantu kabo tamulabatumina balelolela…kkkkkkkk
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Awee ba boyi, there are two different speakers Mary Nyongo and Given Nakazwe. One said poverty, the other said insatiable appetite. Though contradicting statements, each spoke their opinion.
…and just who the hell said old + wealth = hiv/aids. by that logic are we to conclude young and poor women have zero risk of transmitting hiv so we should all go for them and avoid the rich and older? In fact the opposite seems to be true. young and poor is most likely to be humping to make ends meet while the other’s notch count is most likely to be considerably lower.
as for the apetite for fimo fimo thats just biology. when hair grows down there and b00bs pop its aa biological sign the body is ready for humping regardless of one’s age. This whole marry when you get old is an economical issue that provides an opportunity to get skills but it does nothing to address the biology need to hump all night long. happy humping, the rich and slightly older are the best if you ask me…
In Australia the have a saying about older women,,,,,,, they don’t tell and they don’t swell.
older women are okay and sweet
Poverty? No this thing happens even the richest countries. Never heard of gigolos and pimps? Some young men find it easier to access money by selling sex to older women who are mostly lonely and sexually deprived.
The only reason I’m interested in young women is strictly physical—I haven’t met one in the last year or two who has the maturity that I’m looking for these days. Older women have definitely changed my taste as to who I’m attracted to. With most young women, I’m bored to death.
Young women are worse, most of our young girls go out with old married men gir monetary gains. Most of my college mates at Hone had employers to take care of their bills.