By Kapya Kaoma
When I heard that former President Edgar Lungu’s final wish was for President Hakainde Hichilema not to attend his funeral, my heart sank. Zambia is in mourning—not only for a former head of state, but for national unity. Instead, Lungu’s burial risks becoming another political battleground.
My prayerful appeal—especially to the Lungu family and the Patriotic Front (PF)—is this, “Do not let the bitterness of his final years bury the dignity of his legacy.”
In life, it’s often the final acts we remember most. In African culture, funerals can speak louder than a lifetime of public service. We must not allow the drama surrounding President Lungu’s burial to eclipse the memory of his immense contributions. He deserves to be remembered as the first Zambian president to meaningfully invest in national infrastructure. Whether future leaders will match his achievements remains to be seen.
To the Lungu family and PF faithful, I hear your pain. The wounds of political persecution, public vilification, and official silence are still fresh. But pain, when carried with dignity, can be transformative. Sometimes, offering an olive branch in your lowest moment isn’t weakness—it’s the highest form of strength.
Ironically, this funeral places President Hichilema and the UPND in a moral and political bind. If he offers praise, critics may call it “lies”—ahead of 2026. So why not let him face that discomfort publicly? Let the presence of mourning Zambians—grateful, grieving, and proud of Lungu—speak louder than any speech. Let Hichilema see, firsthand, the love people still carry for the man he once mocked and insulted. Let their silent tears become a moral rebuke and a great lesson all of us–leadership is appreciated by the ruled.
In many ways, the PF and the Lungu family now hold the moral high ground. Allowing President Hichilema to attend the funeral would not excuse his actions—it would expose them. It would say, with grace and resolve, “We are better than what was done to us. We are still here.”
I don’t want to excuse President Hichilema. He failed to treat his predecessor with the respect due a former head of state. But if we descend into tit-for-tat politics, we become the mirror image of what we claim to oppose.
I believe there is still time. Still time for the Lungus to reconsider their position. Still time for PF leaders to counsel from wisdom, not anger. There is, of course, still time for Zambians—regardless of party—to choose dignity, sympathy and unity over divisions.
Let’s avoid judging the Lungus too harshly. They are grieving a man who, despite public humiliation, remained committed to peace and democracy. They carry a burden of injustice. Perhaps, now is the time to lay that burden at the altar of national unity. Yet only God can give the grace to do it. Indeed, grace, when embraced, can change hearts.
It is important to note that President Hichilema would attend not as a friend, but as head of state. When Hichilema was inaugurated in 2021, President Lungu showed up—not out of admiration, but in respect for the people’s will. He stood with quiet dignity, even as he was mocked. He acknowledged Hichilema as Zambia’s president, despite never receiving the same recognition in return.
That selfless act of humility should likewise drive the HH administration to rise above partisanship—and perhaps even to apologize. Hichilema needs to hear the pain of the Lungu family. This is time to say, “I got it wrong. I am sorry.” Those aren’t words of weakness, but great marks of true leadership.
I would love to remember Edgar Lungu as a man of the people—humble, pragmatic, and relatable. His memory must not be erased by political vindictiveness over his burial. We cannot let today’s anger rewrite yesterday’s truth.
To the Lungus, may God comfort your hearts, and provide the strength to heal.
To the President and his administration, may you find the humility to listen—not only to criticism, but to the grief of the mourning family.
It is said, two wrongs don’t make a right. But grace in the face of grief? That can make history.
Here, kapaya, you have said something that a true African, a true Zambian , a well cultured, though grieved can understand and adhere to.
If HH had died in that treason prison,Kapya and Lungu would have justified the death
The Lungu funeral has exposed Zambia as an unchristian Christian nation. A nation fiercely opposed to its own laws – by wanting the president to apologize for Lungu loss of benefits while in active politics…
Simply not true. Why do people like deviating from the truth. The cry by PF and the ECL family that ECL should have been allowed to travel for medicals as there was no court injunction which had restricted his movements has nothing to do with his benefits. Therefore the deliberate misleading narrative that the Lungu family wants the President to apologise for Lungu loosing benefits for returning to active politics is not true and a clear fabrication which needs to be dispelled with the contempt it deserves
How can it not ??
It will taint both to some degree
Why as Africans do we always want to alter events
Wanzelu
It is not Lungu’s removal from the plane that killed him.Lungu had a terminal illness.in it’s late stage .whether he should have left earlier or not holds no water.Note that he was shown jumping about just before he died.Should we also blame those who allowed him to be jumping
Lungu legacy built church and even set a date of national prayers. Yet, the actions unfolding have no Christian values in them. A true show of hypocrisy.
Lungu’s last act was a very defining one. Knowing he was dying, he chose to leave a situation that would throw the country into division, hatred and turmoil. That is a choice he made and one that his family have chosen to uphold. This will define his legacy. When it mattered most, his character showed. No amount of spin by Kapya will change this. His last act was to reveal who he truly was.
Too little too late. We have already seen the nature of Lubinda, Nakachinda, Mwamba and Makebi. You should have given this advice at the very beginning of their nonsense. It has now started to be embarrassing even to PF cadres, and this is why you are speaking now. You have yourself seen the unholiness of their behaviour. The court cases are legal procedures based on unexplained amassed wealth. Why do you pretend not to see that?
Face facts !!! this is not all zambians This is purely between two families
Change this thing from state funeral to national funeral and remove HH from the equation as he is not eligible to attend the funeral as per wishes of the late ECL which have to be respected so that atleast we move forward.
BRAVO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It would be rather simplistic to think that is all that is at play here!! These guys have been shifting goal posts from day one. Their demands have been all over the place. Attending or not attending is not even a thing for HH. You will recall that at Nawakwi’s funeral, he revealed that he had actually asked the family if they wanted him to attend or not. No, the conduct of the family and the party suggests they want more from this than just that. This is a body held hostage as a bartering tool. The truth will come out in time.
Many a lady have asked their male counterparts to refrain from physical confrontations in their presence, as a sign of love for the lady. This has led to de-escalation of many roadside altercations. Similarly, disciples of our beloved former President can de-escalate for the sake of his legacy. If they remain dug in deep in their defiance, then they never truly loved him.
I thought any funeral of sort brings reconciliation and togetherness and not chaotic!! And also let’s talk about the good things he did for the nation and let him just RIP
Let’s face facts….
Lungu was the most corrupt president
Lungu was the most drunk president
Lungu was the most visionless president
Lungu was a thug
Lungu was a thief when he was a lawyer
Lungu gassed Zambians
Lungu bribed his way to the presidency
I could go on the whole day…
But you get the facts