It was really nice to hear from you. My family and I are fine. I’m so sorry you are having a hard time adjusting to life abroad.These things take time. Just love your husband and stroke his EGO every so often. Whether you married a muzungu, mwenye or Zambian, you would still have problems.
My twin sister Sara is really having a tough time in her marriage. Her husband Oscar is drinking beer like it will be outlawed tomorrow. He comes home no earlier than midnight most days. Sara comes to me for money for food. Their son was admitted at UTH for malnutrition. Can you believe it! You wouldn’t recognize Oscar if you met him now. When he enters a room its his pot belly that enters first followed by him. We even suspect he is sleeping around. Honestly in this day and age how can an educated man sink so low. Just because anti retrovirals are now available in the country should we throw caution to the wind? I want my sister to leave him but where will she and her 3 malnourished kids go?
So my friend when life seems bad just be grateful for the blessings you have because there are people out there who are worse of than you.