Sexual energy is the lust for life in all forms and at the center of this energy is sex desire. Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires and according to experts, men and women, when driven by this desire, develop imagination, courage, will-power, drive, and creative ability unknown to them during normal times. When driven by this emotion, men become gifted with a super power for action. The emotion of sex contains the secret of creative ability. The emotion of sex is an irresistible force, against which there can be no power to contain it. Castrate a man or beast, and you have removed the major source of action. For proof of this, experts say observe what happens to any animal after it has been castrated. A bull becomes as docile as a cow after it has been altered sexually. Sex alteration takes out of the male, whether man. or beast, all the desire to win that was in him. Sex alteration of the female has the same effect.
So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that human beings freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it. Everybody knows that males are promiscuous and ferociously competitive when it comes to sex. Men’s competitiveness revolves around physical strength and dominance at the basic level, and moves up the scale to include attractiveness, intelligence, ingenuity, organisational power, leadership and wealth. Females, it has become clear, are equally promiscuous, if not more so, and have evolved an astounding array of creative strategies, employed both before and after copulation, to determine exactly who will father their offspring.
Research of biographies stretching over 2000 years show that men who had greatest achievement, accumulated great fortunes and achieved outstanding recognition in their fields had a high sex drive and were motivated by the influence of a woman.
Man’s greatest motivating force is his desire to please woman! The hunter who excelled during old days, before the dawn of civilization, did so, because of his desire to appear great in the eyes of woman. Man’s nature has not changed in this respect. The hunter of today brings home no skins or game of wild animals, but he indicates his desire for her favour by supplying designer clothes, latest cars, latest electronic gadgets, big mansions and wealth. Man has the same desire to please woman that he had before the dawn of civilization. The only thing that has changed, is his method of pleasing.
Men who accumulate large fortunes, and attain to great heights of power and fame, do so, mainly, to satisfy their desire to please women. Take women out of their lives, and great wealth would be useless to most men. It is this inherent desire of man to please woman, which gives woman the power to make or break a man.
The woman, who understands man’s nature and tactfully leverages it, need have no fear of competition from â€œhusband snatchingâ€ women or sugar mummies. Men may be mighty giants with ferocious will-power when dealing with other men, but they are easily tamed by the women of their choice.
Most men will not admit that they are easily influenced by the women they prefer, because it is in the nature of the male to want to be recognized as the stronger of the species. Moreover, the intelligent woman recognizes this “manly trait” and very wisely makes no big deal about it.
If this is the case, one may ask why is it that our society considers men with high sex drive as cursed . The answer lies in tha fact that not all men with high sex drives know how to responsibly use this force. The sex drive force is like that of a river. A river may be dammed, and its water controlled for a time, but eventually, it will force an outlet. The same is true of the sex drive. It may be submerged and controlled for a time, but its very nature causes it to be ever seeking means of expression. If it is not channeled into some creative effort it will find a less worthy outlet like sleeping around with everyone they are attracted to. And in this age of HIV/AIDS, not a good idea.
In part 2 we will look at how to channel this energy to worthy cause.