Priest implicated in deflowering girl, 15

1. Yaba! Nomba ni ba Katolika. A UCZ Elder defiled a 15 year old girl. Now its a Catholic Priest? Indeed these are the last days.

2. This is disgusting, the Bishop of Mansa, the Diocese vicar and the Priest should be fired and arrested. Why was the priest transfered

3. I told you, the only solution is to introduce chemical castration for these sex offenders, otherwise our country is hearded to the cosmos.

4. iye imwe insoni ubukala.

5. “Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron; Forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth. For every creature of God is good, and nothing to be refused, if it be received with thanksgiving: For it is sanct

6. Continued: For it is sanctified by the word of God and prayer. (I Tim 4:1-5)

   “Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband”. (I Cor 7:1,2)

7. “But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. (I Cor 7:6-9)

8. So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. 28And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth
   (Gen 1:27,28)

9. And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. Gen 2:18. Then you priests, why should you cheated that you should not marry. Among the basic thing that God created at creation time is MARRIAGE. You are all born from the process of marrige. Instead of have sex secretly, marry and you then stop bringing the name of God to shame.

10. Uyu priest alefwaikwa ukuputula machine yakwe. Bachilamo ama insertions aba ba shimapepo.

11. Let these poeple marry like Fr Anzanga Mbewe has advised. Sex by catholic priests and nuns is very rife. Two years ago a gentleman in our parish was having a sexual relationship with one nun who happened to be the headmistress of some prominenetcatholic girls school in Lusaka. The rendezvous was the mans office in the show grounds. When they were caught the man’s wife went and complained to this nuns superiors she was quietly transfered to another catholic school in Zambia.

12. MWEBAPATILI MWILA SHENTEKA LESA!!!!!!!!!!!!
    YOU PRETEND TO BE HOLLY WHEN YOU ARE NOT. MAY GOD DELIVER YOU

13. #10 Keyser Soze,
    Agreed. Why don’t they just adopt csriptural advise as in #6 by Daddy.

    Ba Daddy, I think I know you. But you shouldn’t reproduce the entire Bible here. Just relevant scriptures can do.

14. Dont condemn rather symphathize with these poor souls. Babatitikisha fye, infact they are allowed ukucita as long as they are not caught. I can foresee catholic church doing away with celibacy in a very near future – in my life time.

15. the uncle of the girl should also be prosecuted!!! why on earth is he demanding financial compensation instead of demanding the priest to be locked up?? 3 million is not likely to “buy” back her “english”!!would it be shocking if the priest was just “set up” as part of a money making scheme?? the girl is under 16 so therefore the priest must be prosecuted and not made to “pay” for his sins!!I have no sympathy for the uncle..only the poor child who is not old enough to know better!!

16. Even “shimapepo has ubukala” wearing that title does not make him a saint, naoo bulema kwati bwambwa

17. one of the unspoken rules of a public blog is that “you can think it” but FOR GODS SAKE be a little more mature and not ACTUALLY write it as #16 has done !!Exercise some decency and be proud to reflect the quality of your up bringing!!#16, you could still have said what you did, but another way would reflect better on the teachings you were given during childhood !!

18. Aba ba apatili ba lupundu sana . Blitemwa ukunen’ga utubana twa malria.

19. Ubukalafye tabwakwata amenso!

20. I agree with #17, Gentlemen, even if you have a valid point, your language (@ 16) renders it irrelevant. The reason we are here is to reflect and share ideas in the hope somebody will learn something, not show off our compromised character. Lets show some maturity in our contributions.

21. The catholic church needs to re think it’s age old practice of celibacy. Too many of the priests and nuns fail to live up to this virtue and the resulting hypocrisy renders it meaningless. According to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, sex is a fundamental human need and if deprived of, one may be susceptible to loneliness, social anxiety and depression! I rest my case bambo

22. Fellow bloggers, Sex is a powerful driving force! Men have been known to go to extreme lengths just to get laid! Man will risk everything including his life and reputation just to satisfy his sexual desires. Hence, instead of trying to contain it, let these chaps simply marry instead of unleashing their “ifi mulebede” on the poor little girls and worse still, alter boys!

23. Church,church church.Things happen but we tend to over trust the gown,and the talks seeming to be biblical in origin.
    Sorry guys,why can’t we just marry?I once thought of being a priest but ,just cause of something troubling me by admiring nuns,sisters in christ etc,i thought i better pray and seek help from above.Answer:Am married,got a child and prayers still get answered by my lord God.i did not wanna lie to the unsuspecting children of God ,,,pretending i don get affected by the beauty,,,,

24. bo ndate david lubasi,thanks u were real to youself.there is no need to steal what is legally yours….kindly join mbewe who has seen the need to sleep complete ba priest

25. What has been said about Number 16 also goes for Number 19 (fyapena) the language is filthy to the uttermost. Guys tule landa bwino. Ifwe tuli ba pa Zed.

26. Seriously speaking, we are seeing signs of the end. These are last days. Tule pepa guys.

27. Celibacy and abstinance
    are only effective for people that have never had sexual Intercourse. Most of these nuns and priests get into these callings after they have been heavily sexually vandalised.

28. Ba Citizen(27),your phrase “sexual vandalism” has kept me laughing for the last 15 minutes!!! Aluta continua comrade!!who says there cannot be some humour whilst discussing serious issues!! two phrases that have been coined on LT…1. “sexual vandalism….2. visual pollution (Celtel adverts)!!! I’m tickled beyond belief and further encouraged to turn to LT each and every day!!

29. Can we at least learn from some western democracies like the US that the State has a constitutional duty to protect minors esp in cases of child sexual abuse.Thus the bible sexual predator should be issued a warrant, arrested and prosecuted. For the uncle this is not the time to get ‘rich’

30. ama batila ba priest,nangu ba father bachende bamambala.

31. There is no need of using insults online. It simply shows how damn somebody can be in Public.

32. I agree with number 15. The uncle should also be locked up. Why demand money from a criminal instead of reporting him to police?

33. Ala bane, who ever is hosting this website, please ama messege yamo yali more of insults and vulgar language nga yafula, even good things become uziless.
    can u censor some of these messeges please.
    on the bakatolika, ala its better baleupa fye ukuchila ukulalala no twaiche nangu ubulalelale pantu Lesa tatemwa and aka myo cha

34. Its ironic that most of you think marriage is the solution for catholic priests when child defilement and prostitution (of the male kind) are rampant even among married protestant patsors. Hell, I can bet that most of the married men on this site have extra marital affairs. Before you say that is ok, remember that by man’s law defilement is worse than adultery but by GOD’s law they are both punishable sins. The answer lies in morality; not just the priest’s by yours too…

35. Ba katolika ma hypocrites. They should just let their priests marry. Alot of them have done more harm than good in the name of prayer

36. All u guys making commments, have u had chance to investigate the priest’s state of mind!You may be making noise about a lunatic! How i pity u!Think!

37. It goes beyond equiping one head knowledge that will change iresposimble sexual madness but complete trnsformation of the heart by apppreciating that the Bible is God’s and it is sharper than a two edged sword.

38. #36.These guys are not making noise,exept for a few like 16.u see if this priest is a lunatic,fine.but they are still expressing their rage to other pipo who might be invoived in such filthy vices.keep it up guys.let us keep on condeming these pipo until they change.

39. Lady Vee my dear, its because # 16 is a lady like you! Bafikamba bachi lamo ukwikata utwaiche, Only those that have felt the pain knows how to express the real anger, (ichikalipa chumfwo umwine) anything else is just bla, bla, bla….

40. Ya baka toli toli ba chibe. Wine yena awe mwandi filanwa fi father. I think ba leupa fye nga banabo ba anglican bopa shani. Pantu shimapepo nga bamusanga na sexual sin ninshi na congregation yakwe ni times 2 ku bu chende.
    Contrary to what #36 thinks, illicity sexual behavior muba upana mubwina christu muchishinka inono. differentiate between hypocrites and real time born again people. i for one am married and i have never tasted any woman apart from my and only wife

41. I believe that the Goverment, Priest,Uncle and Bishop dealing with this issue be sued for failure to protect the child. I donot care if it was concensual or not, this girl is a child. Think about how traumatized this Girl will be .It is a shame. The Bishop should learn from what happened to Cardinal Bernard Law in Archdiocese of Boston when he to resign in shame and disgrace because he kept on transferring troubled Priests around.

42. #40 you have missed out on a lot of “tastes! once you’ll decide to give it a go you’ll never go back to the one taste you only know! I stopped counting how many guys i’ve shagged at 300 something, never got STD’s and Still hiv neg. my record should be by around 300 something men now, this is because i was raised to be a “manhunter” like most Zed women with “amalepe” you see, at the age of 12 i was forced to pull my labia (imishino) which now makes me feel horny by every single movement i make.

43. There is too cases of defilement and that case let this issue not be a taboo.As long as this issuue remains a taboo the perpetuators will continue defiling young girls. My advise to the Church is that if the continue with sweeping the issue under the carpet it will back fire right in their faces and will be too late for apologies,diplomacy and damage control. No mother would like their child deflowered and the church just brushing the issue like it’s business as usual.Shame!

44. As shocked as i am with the brazen use of vulgarity by #42 i’d like to know what is ‘Amalepe’?

45. #42 YOU ARE SICK.MAY THE MIGHTY LORD FORGIVE YOU.I WONDER IF YOU ARE A WOMAN.THE PIPO WHO TAUGHT YOU AT 12YEARS SHOULD SURE HAVE TAUGHT YOU HOW TO BEHAVE AND SPEAK ESEPESIALLY IN PUBLIC.SHAME ON YOU.

46. #45 keep your LORD to yourself! I’m not brainwashed like you, if i was sick i wouldn’t be here. Learn proper english if you want to post messages here.
    #44 Amalepe is a term in Njoni used for Labia in english, some primitive african cultures girls are circumsied in Zed we are encouraged to enlarge the labia as to please the partner when *performing* instead this actually turn women with amalepe into maniacs. Those priest and child defilers are the ones that are sick. Get Real!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

47. Its sad that the so called clergy are doing these bad acts.these are people trying to be Godly but proving false by there ACTS.you can run but you cant hind in eyes of GOD.

48. bravo victim 20 years later. the best advice i can give u is that know that u are the temple of God and He is patient enough to let u change your mind. u can even see this. u said u are not pos but have slept with more than 300 men. well are u married or still single. think of the pain u are causing to someones husband. wud u like your man to behave the same way u are behaving or u wud like to have him stay at home and have lively hot sex not nokutina ati limbi balatusanganisha or thinking limbi

49. uyu ali na HIV.
    be real to your self and u will realise that you are just being used by demons of fornication or adultery. I know the Ngonis dont teach what u are claiming coz my mother is one of them and she is a marvelous gift God has given me.
    Ofcourse people think gud sex is found in large labia. Awe, gud sex is found when u have a free mind when u are enjoying it.

50. I am looking for a nun to deflower. Interested nuns can contact me on [email protected]

51. #49 you are the demon! “Your free mind ” makes you an ***** when you snatch little ones, any true zedian knows that when a ngoni girl or some other tribes practices the pulling of AMALEPE which is a Ngoni term and no other, ask your sweet mama how long hers are, belive me she has one of the longest in ZED. I would bet on that.

52. How did we deviate so badly from discussing the priestly criminal to female anatomy and certain tribal sexual practices?
    Nonetheless ‘Victim 20 yrs later, you intrigue me…..

53. Kalongozi,
    i didnt mean having sex with a free mind in the context of rape or child defilement iyo. I meant u having sex with your duly wedded wife and no one else. Victim 20 years later said she has slept with about 300 men and i said thats more of an extreme in the sense that sex with other people than your hubby or wife is WRONG in the site of God. If i sounded like am promoting defilement, then u are the dullest creature i have come across coz u cant even follow the simple discussion.

54. Kalongozi. if u ever knew where sexuality of a woman lies, then u wud not waste time pulling the labia to an extent that they are more or less like big tobacco leaves. Know a womans anatomy and u will be surprised that the sensation is not in the LABIA. Mule joba bane and dont just do things pantu bambuya bobe balilandile ati ku kuna imishino.

55. #51 i think no one but u has point. try to follow where he/she started from.
    otherwise i think he/she is not supporting defilement but promoting one man one woman relationship

56. #55 thank you my brother/sister for the encouragement

57. #56 so finally you got a glimpse at your mamas “leaves” lol.. better try a take a sniff on them too. Women without amalepe are frigid and COLD LIKE DEAD FISH, not even the “famous kachabali east african technique” can help. Long live Longwani!!!
    childsexual abuse in Zed has always been there, but since most zedians dont like to discuss this problem openly many victims are shy to report the abuse

58. I think #57 has misplaced brains. How on earth do u think i will go and see my mothers nakedness? Freedom of expression eeh!! Well atleast i have mama who is respectable and my wife who is so sexy that i need not go after another pussy.
    u seem to tackle two different issues here. I am not in support of child sexual abuse God forbid as i dont want such a thing to happen to my daughter and i will condemn the perpetretors to the fullest but issues of amalepe are misplaced in this case and try to t

59. to think positively. Why being ama hule! if u are a gal, u are not married and u want other men. Not me. Or uli n’ganga such that u give any man your pussy free and then u want to show off your amalepe. atase.
    ONE MAN ONE WIFE IS MY MOTTO and if u dont want, yah suit yourself.

60. #’s 46,51 and 57 have misplaced ideas. not able to follow #56 logic.
    Viva one wife one hubby. mmmmm i enjoy sex with my hubby. he simply knows where to strike and oh my god, i gat amalepe but still i feel he strikes a totally different environment and i dance to his tune.

61. we are all weak in our own ways though that does not mean priests should do such things. the real thing here is that “let the one who has not sinned before cast the first stone.” priests, church elders, pastors etc. are still as human as everybody else. they too are bouond to mistakes even though they are called to serve God in a spacial way. this is not a issue of pointing fingers at people but a time of seeing how best to help the involved person and family spirituall, emotionally and material

62. Its unfortunate that when given an opportunity to express your opinio,you even go beyond yo reasoning.Nevertheless,you dont use emotions to respond to issues reasonably.You use the brains.My dear “VICTIM 20YEARS LATER”,”NO ONE BUT YOU”&”KALONGOZI”,one of you should just humble and ignore the other.If U argue with a fool people might not notice the difference.You are not helping leaders with vulgar language.But The priest who did this,the uncle to the niece who wants riches must face the law.

63. NO ONE BUT YOU, truth hurts right? So now you are refering tobacco leaves to your mamas nakedness hahaha grow up! You are not around your wifey 247, she is only human, once she tries pepe she will always want to taste it. Since you dont know the sweetness of suga, she will get it somewhere else you are just a side mogu who help pays the bills. See you in heaven or is it in the tobacco fields, eh heheheeeeeeeeee!

64. #62 I agree with u. the main topic is child difilement and not use of vulgar language. who ever brought in issues of who is sexy in bed or who has the broadest leaves on their private parts -so called amalepe is not a leader and such people are very dangerous in society as they cause other pipo to deviate from the real issues.NO ONE BUT YOU, KALONGOZI, VICTIM 20 YEARS LATER OLIODADO better keep quiet.

65. Oliodado, i thank you very much together with victim 20 years later and kalongozi. well i not only pay the bills but also look after my wife, my daughter, my father and mother. so be blessed and i will prefer u learnt one thing, sex is not like driving lessons. it is more than that and u dont just change women/men like clothes. I come from an intact family where promisciuty is not part of us so choose what suits you ladies & gentlemen. i prefer we changed our thinking for the betterment of zed

66. lets build strong and Godly families as this will translate into a productive country. believe me, if u come from a dis oriented family, sex is just a game, but HIV is just around the corner and please we need you to develope zed not to fill leopards hill cem too early

67. One Zambia! One Nation! One Nation, Different Minds, Faith, Dreams, and Goals

    Dare start with me again

    Peace,
    as for the priest he needs to be kicked out of the church period.

68. #60, what you are so fortunate to experience is Orgasm that a majority of women never do.Your man simply knows how to hit the G-spot when he ‘makes llove’ to you. He doesnt just have sex with you. He is an artist, a painter who knows how to put a beautiful picture and music together.Amalepe has nothing to do with sensuous love making ’20 years later’. Find yourself a man who will tap your spot and you wll stop running around…..

69. #68 thanks.
    yah my alangizi almost made my labia bleed just to ensure they were extended. Anyway thats beside the point. Victim 20 years later is misleading many unsuspecting gals and probably she does not even know her status.
    Women, know yourselves and as a married lady and a medical doctor for that sake, i know where my G sport is and my man reaches it and the right key is struck. the rest is heaven.
    I dont want my two daughters and son tO be defiled anyway

70. I hope, doctor, that in the spirit of positive blogging,you can help educate many on human sexuality from a professional perspective.It is a shame that many of us write and talk so much on the subject yet remain ignorant of vital realities because of the stigma associated with any sexual discussion. Thanx Sibongile

71. thats a sad story indeed thats why we dont need to pretend lets just be true to ourselves like milligo.just marry do and look for a job to sustain your family than wear that priesthood thing when inside we are different God is going to punish us.

72. Your point being….what #71?

73. Sibongile, first of all let me correct you! Its G SPOT and not spoRt, I know more than you will ever find out about SEX, so you also have the longated mishino, i hope your man knows how to suck them very well, otherwise you dont know shit; as for your girls, they will probably end up chasing men because nobody will want to go with ugly rats.

74. Victim 20yrs Later….Let us keep the playing field level.If our comments are addressed to those in this debate and those who can defend themselves it would only be fair. Leave kids out of it in all fairness. WE do not need more victims 20 yrs later. By the way did you mean ELONGATED?

75. you people that talk about malepe are crazy…anyways wots the difference between a woman wiv long ones o short ones i dont see wot they do pliz help me learn

76. Even Archibishop Milingo ran away from the church after tasting.

77. Gelo my dear, i myself did not khow about this practice and i’m sure i’ve never experienced a woman with extended labia beyond normal.But i will say this, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Sexual pleasure can be realised at its highest optimum in a variety of ways, the ultimate of which is the physical and emotional bonding you and your partner share. If you want me to be more detailed i’ll be most obliged to.

78. noname thats true my man pleases me all the time rather most of the time and he doesnt care about malepe he’s good and i respond well his not zambian but his good am from eastern province and most girls i know from eastern have been put in the house all they do is sleep around coz they are taught when they come of age

79. #73, point being?

80. I thought this chapter was closed. I am begining to think you need pyschological counselling and may be a bit of Biology of the reproductive system. Uli be vo chita i think and mostly your mind is bent on sex and how to please your men. I please my man and only him for that matter any one else it becomes promiscuity or kapena uli SOLOLA chabe iwe.

81. I participated once but its like #73 has a bone to chew with any one who does have what she has. From the looks of things, she could be a sexually starved moma and wants any dick to pierce thru her ndengelemo.
    In this era of HIV who will risk sleeping with a HARLOT? chisiyeni chabe nichi victim already and no good advice can come from coz u are just in a mess yourself. who told u to spread your legs in the first place, your mother or mbuya. wemuchende iwe. so dirty in your mind.

82. #73, hehehehe, have ever used a maize cob right thru your vulva into the vagina, sat on a bende and applied clips on your so called labia? wilatusebanya coz u are not the only one with a rotten stinking slut. Just come out in the open is u seek help. u are not the only slut on the scene, even some of us from namwanga land have long lips but not to be abused like u are doing. Chinena

83. even in the wake of contaminated contraceptives and condoms, u still want to brag about your so called VICTIM 20 YEARS LATER. old leopards and chingwere are not completely full and dont end up there so soon as your men need to lick your leaves!!!

84. Suwilanji, you will definately occupy one of the two places before VICTIM 20 YEARS LATER, Namwanga’s AS YOU CONFESSED ARE EXPERTS IN GROOMING THE LONGEST LABIA MINIMUM SIZE IS THE MIDDLE FINGER OF A FULL GROWN MAN. Most of them that i knew “have kicked the bucket” cuz they were too busy practicing what they were taught in DA HOUSE! As for your fantasy with the maize cob and bende, lol that can only come from your experience. Niwebo nko chinena!

85. what a bunch of ignorant fools, you are no different than the primitive cultures who practice female genital multilation! Must be traumatic for a girl to be subjected to some form of NONSENSE practice at an early age most of these traditions are useless and very embarrasing in later life for women who go abroad meet foreign men, some people even doctors think the women has cancer, because its not natural to do such. We must banish such rubbish including dowry. Get more in educating the female child to be strong independent women, than whores taught by mama.

86. The problem with most girls is that they have been mislead by some so called nachimbusas, mothers only need to explain the facts of life to their children, like Safety Tips and Self Defense against sexual molesters and rape; ie… NEVER to allow strangers touch them where they would feel uncomfortable, or found alone in a room/place with strangers, etc…scream or make a scene if they must! Most nachimbusa’s secrets of womanhood is to tell a girl never to look a man in the eyes, (which is very wrong, if anything the girl losses the battle once she shows cowdice and shyness against the sex ofenders like Catholic Priest B Kanakwenda

87. Well put ‘all said..’.Th e real problem is that most of our girls lack real social etiquette in dealing with the opposite sex until it is too late. They are locked into a submissive mode and suffer from a deep lacking in appropriate sex education. That is also why they are extremely vulnarable to such figures as priests. As Sibongile said earlier ‘Girls know yourselves’! Educate yourselves on your own and your gender’s sexuality. Be daring and experiment with techniques and positions and make sex with your chosen partner a mutual adventure in bliss. Tell your little girls to educate themselves in a moral way. This way we will not be mired in ignorance, anger and denials which is what i sense

88. I must also add that as a Zambian i am ashamed that various cultures still practice various forms of mutilation or distortions of what nature has given. Personally i apologise to all these young girls on whom unproffessional operations have been perfomed without their consent. Please mothers,20 yrs later included, let you be the mantle for an enlightened and healthy sexual future.

89. Brothers and sisters,enough is enough. Lets move ahead and put good suggestions as to how our children will be protected in our presence or absence. Mind you, the topic was and i still beleive is about child defilers not who has the longest or broadest amalepe. Lets close the chapter and leave the amalepe to victim 20 years later and her children if she has any.
    Lets speak with one voice so that stiff punishment is metted on the child defilers.

90. noname US, in other words you feel for the “victim 20 yrs later” which makes me proud of you at least there is someone out there who hears the cries of a voiceless zambian girl child who’s about to be dragged in the process of “Type IV (FGM) without her consent. Every zambian girl put through this is the Victim 20 yrs later, it could be anyone, because thats what the practice leads too. Whether everyone agrees or not. Every victim has too deal with the longlasting scar differently. Plz learn more on the subject on WHO website, and spare your girls from shame and pain 20 yrs later.

91. No One But You & Co. Finger pointing will not get you anywhere, you should thank the person who has enlightened you stuckup lot on a very important topic! Pretty sure most of ya’ll are still in families that carry on doing this malepe stuff on your daughters. Also stuff like guys who show their privates in public to women and girls, most parents blames their girls who goes to report about being followed by a half naked man, instead of investigating the criminal. MAYO, TATA KULI ABAUME MUSHILA ABALELANGA UBWAMBA KULI NE FYAPALA CONDENESED MILK… Ukutumpa! kabiye uko fumapa ne fyabupuba!

92. I have nothing but but compassion for V-20yrs later.The psychological scars incurred are quite obvious cos this girl has been deeply tramatized even though she may not realize to what extent.She acts it out in her own way by chasing men even though she sounds sensible enough to see the consequences in that. So ihope for her childrens sake she can

93. The best sex I have ever had was with a maid. Though we came from different social settings we had sex like animals We had sex anywhere on the floor on the table, in the bathroom and even outside on the verander her pure natural smell would turn me on. Yet I am married to a very beutiful and educated girl. However when we are having sex she tries her level best but cannot match the maid.I have tried to teach her what I like but still it is never the same. The truth is that it not every couple where sex will click.

94. My wife rarely has an orgasm she has to have sex with her legs brought together to climax. The cavity in her womanhood is big.While with the maid my manhood fits in her like a bolt and nut. She experiences multiple genuine orgams everytime we have sex. I am not a pervet but can some explain to me this phenomenon.

95. My brother, you are self absolved. You are beeing unfair to your wife.Good sex at any level ought to be a mutually dynamic engagement.Why do you emphasise only what YOU like? What about her? What does she like? Trust me my brother you are just not doing her right. The same pleasure that you enjoy with your maid she can find with that 17yr old next door and she will not think about you again in bed! Careful what you wish for. Now as for the other part i will see if i can provide an answer for you

96. Sex may not always be explosive for every couple,true, but there are always a variety of ways that it can be enhanced. However the anxiety of joy in the fear of being caught cheating is what you are experiencing with your young nanny! As well, she suffers from what is called ‘Penis envy’ by being around you and is equally vulnarable. What your wife is telling you by cranking her thighs together in order to get satisfaction and relief is that you are not arousing her enough to the point where she can orgasm thru intercourse. She may want creative and prolonged foreplay for example. Make her loose, talk about fantasies, tell her to wear skimpy or no underwear, try oral sex and so on

97. #95 /96
    Indeed, #94 is doing injustice to his wife and i bet she can have an orgasm if he also helps her by coming out in the open. As for her womanhood cavity being big, there are simple execersises recommended by gyneacologists to tighten up the muscles just on the vaginal opening. Size does not matter. The problem is psychological and both need to undergo counselling. Marriage ought to be respected and the moment your wife will know this, you will have her killed.
    Brighten up and since u are married, why not have sex in a variet of ways and positions. Try to arouse her clitorial area and a bit of long fore play. Mind you all girls reach their climax way after the man has ejaculated and

98. the penis is well over limp. The other thing, sensation is around the coital area, the area just above the urinary tract where the labia minora makes a clitoral hood, the nerves triggering an orgasm are highly concentrated in this area and if u play it properly, your woman will enjoy just as u feel good immediately u pour out.
    Hope the tips work other wise, dont just come in the open on the net, physicians are their to help out. Go to Dr Manda=Urology dept at UTH.

99. “Change” you are shortchanging your wife and fooling yourself.The fact that your wife tries hard shows she has a healthy sexual appetite that is not being well nourished.In fact she may be multi-orgasmic! She comes across to me as a simmering volcano ready to erupt if well handled. Because she already musterbates while you are inside her try to help her by mutually playing with each other during intercourse. For example have her guide you in so that her fingers are caressing both your member and her own pussy.You could put your hand on top of hers.Also let her have her way and take the lead. You will be surprised at how creative and sensuous she can be.Pay attention to Sibongile’s comments.

100. The world has really changed, strange things are happening to pipo who we don’t think can behave like that. Its in human, why do you become a priest if you are not sure of yourself? if not capable please stay away from making those vows and marry. The priest, the vicar and the parish they are in human they should be removed cause they dont know God and his stapes as examples of God. “Lucy Dube sunged a song the in church when preaching in church they even cry but when night falls they are witches and hookrs” very shamfull!!

101. Ba katolika fumyenipo insoni.
     Please catholic priests you are better off following Milongo and stop this imoral behavior.

102. a priest is man like any other man! mind you girls, dont hung around with your priests… respect them as your parents and keep away from them…they are not your boy friends, they are your shepherds.

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