I have a dilemma I never thought I would find myself in. A year ago I started working for a certain company. Two months into my new job my boss went on leave and another man took his place in an acting position. I got along with my new boss very well and we soon struck an out of office friendship. You see I wanted to be professional at work and only agreed to see him after hours.We have been dating seriously for the last 8weeks.
I felt he was a descent guy because he never invited me to his place.He does come to my place but my flat mate is usually there so we are never really alone.
I have really grown to love this man and could see myself spending the rest of my life with him.
Last week I got a phone call from an angry woman telling me to lay of her husband. If she had not been calling from his cell phone I would have had my doubts about her. My brother also told me he thought he saw my boyfriend dropping off a kid at the school my niece goes to.
I am in total shock. He never wore a ring, at least in my presence.I do not know what to do. I can not stand working at that company anymore.People I’m sure have been looking at me like a slut.Perhaps that may be the reason the other women at work have not been friendly towards me.I have not yet confronted him but I am so embarrassed and angry for having missed all the signs that I was dating a married man.Should I resign from my job and put distance between us? I can not stand working in such close proximity with him anymore.
Lady in distress