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Loveless Marriage

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kilimanjaroDear bloggers,

I have been married for 5 years but the past 2-3 years I feel I have fallen out of love with my husband. I think the biggest mistake I ever made was accepting to marry him in the first place.I was 24 years at the time recently graduated from UNZA and felt the pressure to marry.Pressure came from relatives who always passed comments at my always being on other peoples wedding line ups.Well, when my then boyfriend of one year felt we should marry I thought it was a good idea.

Over the years living with him has become a struggle.I find every excuse to be away from him.He is generally a good man but I feel sometimes we have nothing in common anymore.Ok I’ll say it, he bores me to tears.I would love to get out more,visit different countries,visit game parks etc.Even taking a trip to Livingstone to see the Victoria falls to him is an issue.I swear even RB has more spunk than my husband!

Recently my brother was going to Tanzania to pick up a Japanese car and I jumped at the idea to go with him.I planned to visit one of my friends living in Dar es Salaam.My friend promised to take me on a site seeing trip to Mount Kilimanjaro.This was a chance of a lifetime but my husband vehemently refused saying it would be a waste of money. I went to Tanzania anyway.Its not like I couldn’t buy my own air-ticket.I’m as financially sound as he is.I had so much fun especially seeing mount Kilimanjaro.I met some nice people in Tanzania who I felt I shared more interests with than my husband.I extended my trip because my friend wanted to show me around. I felt so alive and had so much fun.I dreaded coming back to my dreary house.

My husband was cross but I didn’t let him dampen my spirits.Luckily we do not have kids so I think that makes it easier to walk away from this marriage.

My aunties think I should stick it out and one day I’ll grow to love him but hey life is short and I’m not getting any younger! I want to go places, achieve my hopes and dreams, perhaps one day meet someone more intellectually stimulating than my husband.It aint cutting with this dude.My trip to Tanzania opened my eyes.There are people out there with similar goals and interests like me.Why should I playhouse with this man who bores me tears.

So what do you think should I divorce him and get it over with or stay with him,learn how to make chikanda for him as he wants me to and hope that someday by some miracle my love for him will be rekindled.I’ve never wanted to carry the label divorced woman but ya ya ya ya ya I don’t know what to do.

Yours,

Lady M

Chinese delegation in Zambia for feasibility studies on the stadia to be constructed

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A Chinese delegation has arrived in the country to conduct feasibility studies for the construction of three stadia in Zambia.

Speaking on arrival at the Lusaka International Airport, delegation leader Jin Meikang assured the Zambian government that the stadia to be constructed would of international standards and their lifespan would be over 50 years.

Mr. Meikang, who spoke through an interpreter, said the stadia would have a seating capacity of over 50,000 spectators.

The stadia to be constructed by the Anltui Foreign T-conomil Construction Group would located in Ndola, Lusaka and Livingstone respectively.

And Government says Zambia will learn a lot from China in the area of construction and engineering from such undertakings.

Ministry of Sport, Youth and Child Development Chief Planner Henry Kapacha, who was on hand to receive the delegation, said government is indebted to China through the gesture shown by that country to help Zambia have modern stadia.

Mr. Kapacaha reiterated government’s commitment to developing sports infrastructure in the country.

Recently, Sport, Youth and Child Development Minister Kenneth Chipungu accompanied by his Permanent Secretary Susan Sikaneta were in China to negotiate for the construction of modern sports infrastructure to which the Chinese government has favorably responded.

ZANIS

Reduce the cost of banking in Zambia- Fundanga

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Bank of Zambia Governor Dr. Caleb Fundanga
Bank of Zambia Governor Dr. Caleb Fundanga
Bank of Zambia (BOZ) Governor Caleb Fundanga says it is

important for commercial banks in the country to operate in a manner that supports growth and development of the country’s economy.

Dr. Fundanga said it was therefore important for commercial banks to lower the cost of banking and offer attractive banking services to the public.

The Central Bank chief said the general cost of banking services in Zambia should be made affordable to the general public.

He was speaking at the foundation laying stone ceremony of the new Stanbic bank offices in the Show grounds in Lusaka.

Dr Fundanga noted that the investment that is being made by Stanbic bank would have a positive impact on the economy due to the evident linkages that infrastructure development has on various sectors of the economy.

He pointed out that the repositioning by the bank is one way of ensuring that there is healthy competition in the banking industry.

Stanbic bank chief executive Ben Kruger said Stanbic is committed to service the people on the African continent.

Mr. Kruger said Stanbic is an African Bank that has a unique understanding of African business.

ZANIS

Vice President George Kunda challenged to act

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The Citizens Committee (CC) is calling for the reduction of

the number of delegates to the National Constitution Conference(NCC). Committee Executive Director Gregory Chifire pointed out that paying delegates who have since concluded their work is an unnecessary drain on national coffers.

Mr.Chifire has challenged Justice Minster George Kunda to act on the matter.

Mr.Chifire says the move is meant to be a costing saving measure in the face of the global economic downturn.

Mr. Chifire told ZANIS in interview in Lusaka that there is no need for government to continue spending colossal sums of money on a bloated number of NCC delegates at the expense of national development.

He suggested that only committees that are still seating should be allowed to continue while those that have concluded their set mandate should not continue to draw allowances.

He said financial difficulties facing many countries have not spared Zambia thereby affecting many developmental efforts.

He said this is why government should come up with a clear policy on the issue of paying NCC delegates as the policy will assist government scrutinize the payment of allowances to NCC delegates.

Mr. Chifire further added that as much as the constitutional making process is important to the national development other activities should also be given equal opportunities of funding.

The NCC has concluded debates for over 15 committees that were mandated to consider different clauses from the Mung’omba draft constitution.

ZANIS

Kasama council instructed to remove street vendors

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Northern province Minister, Charles Shawa, has instructed the Kasama Municipal Council to remove vendors from the streets to achieve the objectives of the Keep Kasama Township Clean project.

Mr Shawa expressed concern that street vending is compromising the hygiene standards in the district. He said the council should enforce measures that mandate street vendors to relocate and operate from designated markets.

Mr Shawa said this when he inspected New Town market in Kasama.
He also appealed to vendors to consider moving from the streets to designated areas where they could sell their merchandise in an orderly manner.

He also appealed to marketeers to apply for loans from the Citizens Economic Empowerment Commission to boost their business activities.

Mr Shawa said people should be allowed to trade in conducive market places provided by the council to preserve a clean work environment and avoid outbreaks of communicable diseases.

Earlier,marketeers at Kasama New Town market complained that their vegetables, fish and other items were not selling at the market as compared to the streets.

In response, Mr Shawa said customers are not yet used to the market but that they would eventually start buying their items once they know about it.

He advised that marketeers should keep their toilets and the market place clean as a measure to improve on their health and hygiene at their work place.

ZANIS

Two fishermen drown in Serenje

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Two fishermen drowned on Wednesday, as they were fishing on Lake Lusiwasi in Serenje district.

Both Serenje District Commissioner Stanley Chibwana and the District Council Secretary Yaphet Simpamba confirmed the incident to ZANIS.
He said villagers in Nansala area retrieved one body while the other is still being searched for.

Mr. Simpamba told ZANIS that he received the report about the death of the two people last evening.

Mubiana Sibandi, a Fisheries Officer stationed at Nalubi, said of late a strong wind has been blowing over the lake causing dangerous waves.

ZANIS

NICA Condemns Killing of Suspected Female Witch

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The National Initiative for Citizen’s Awareness (NICA) has strongly condemned the beating up of two women by a mob of Kitwe residents on suspicion that the duo were witches.

NICA president Kelvin Sampa described the actions of the mob as barbaric and unacceptable.

Mr. Sampa has since appealed to the National Constitutional Conference (NCC) to include laws that would punish witch doctors that prescribe unorthodox means to their clients.

He said there is also need to spearhead sexual and gender based violence campaigns by local communities in order for them to understand the importance of laws and human rights.

Mr. Sampa urged relevant authorities to arrest and charge the culprits for murdering one of the woman and attempting to burn her body.

The NICA president has since warned citizens in the country to desist from taking the law into their own hands as doing so will equally result in their prosecution.

An unidentified woman in Kitwe was on Thursday beaten to death by an angry mob who also attempted to burn her body on allegations that she was practicing witchcraft.

ZANIS

Second Printing press to be erected in Kasma

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Government is set to erect a second rural printing press in Kasama to facilitate the printing of both vernacular and Daily newspapers.

Information and Broadcasting Permanent Secretary Emmanuel Nyirenda disclosed the development in Kasama when he called on Northern Province Minister Charles Shawa at his office.[quote]

Mr Nyirenda said the printing press which will be under the Zambia News and Information Services was part of government’s programme to take printing facilities closer to the people.

The PS expressed confidence that the setting up of the printing press in the province will encourage local production of newspapers to enhance information dissemination.

He said his office has already started the procurement process of the equipment and appealed to the Provincial administration to assist by ensuring that the plans and bill of quantity for the building are prepared with minimum delays.

And Northern Province Minister Charles Shawa has commended the Government for the initiative saying it will empower the local people with the necessary information.

Mr Shawa said access to timely information was cardinal for people to make informed decisions.

He observed that although there was a lot happening in the province, very little was being captured by the national press.

The Minister has also appealed to the public to change their reading culture if the new facility to be set up by government was to be of any benefit.

He said it worried him a lot to see people using newspapers which contain a lot of useful information as wrapping paper.

Mr Shawa has also urged the Ministry of Information and Broadcasting services to provide ZANIS with suitable water transport for their Chilubi and Mpulungu offices.

The Minister said Government was concerned with the increasing number of people who are perishing on lake Bangweulu.

He noted that the two water bodies in the province were volatile which required suitable water transport to safeguard lives.

The Permanent Secretary was in the province to lay ground work for the setting up of the second printing press.

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FODEP backs the united Africa concept

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429px-logo_of_the_african_unionsvgThe Foundation for Democratic Process (FODEP) says a united Africa is a long-term solution to the continent’s underdevelopment.

FODEP President Stanley M’hango however, says the process towards a unity African government should be gradual.

Mr. M’hango said the formation of the United States of Africa would translate into greater investment in-flow onto the continent.

Mr. Mhango noted that Africans would further benefit from the free movement of people, goods and services.

He also said the quest to have a seat in the United Nation’s Security Council would receive better hearing if Africa spoke with one voice.

Mr. M’hango said the continent would be harmonized through cultures, religions and customs by promoting the spirit of coexistence in diversity.

He was speaking in Lusaka today when he made a presentation to the parliamentary committee on security which is chaired by Kawambwa Patriotic Front (PF) Member of Parliament (MP) Elizabeth Chitika Mulobeka.

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Police hunt for a witchdoctor

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Police in Siavonga have launched a man hunt for a named witchdoctor that allegedly administered medicine to two sisters who later died.

Sources at Siavonga police station told ZANIS in an interview today that they were taking frantic efforts to apprehend a Lusaka based witchdoctor who is said to have given medicine to the two sisters.

The sisters, Esnart Mujae aged 38 and Sabeta Mwanja 46, both of Simasanga village in Siavonga district died on Wednesday after receiving and taking the medicine given to them by the witchdoctor.

The witchdoctor was in the area treating sick people.

A medical report from Siavonga district hospital indicated that the two died of suspected poisoning.

And village headman Stanley Simasanga confirmed to ZANIS that the two sisters had been sick hence they sought treatment from the witchdoctor.

Headman Simasanga said the witchdoctor gave the two sisters some powdered medicine, assuring them that they would be cured once they drunk it.

He disclosed that the witchdoctor prescribed the same type of medicine to the sisters one of whom had a mental problem and another paralyzed legs.

He said the witchdoctor was paid the sum of K200, 000 and three chickens for the prescribed powdered medicine.

Headman Simasanga explained that immediately after taking the medicine, the two sisters started complaining of abdominal pains and later started vomiting and developed diarrhea, a situation that led to their death.

He said the bodies of the two sisters were later taken to Siavonga hospital where medical authorities pronounced them dead and took them to the brought in dead section.

Headman Simasanga charged that the witchdoctor fled the village after news of the death of the two sisters reached him.

The bodies will undergo a postmortem before burial takes place.

ZANIS

The Week in pictures

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Old currency notes and coins at the Lusaka Sunday Market going for K3600 a piece
Old currency notes and coins at the Lusaka Sunday Market going for K3600 a piece

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Assorted items for sale at the Lusaka Sunday Market
Assorted items for sale at the Lusaka Sunday Market

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Lusaka Intercity Bus Terminal at Sunrise
Lusaka Intercity Bus Terminal at Sunrise

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Pigs at Lusaka Intercity Bus Terminal
Pigs at Lusaka Intercity Bus Terminal

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Hard working men of Lusaka Intercity Bus Terminal.
Hard working men of Lusaka Intercity Bus Terminal.

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Dirt Roads of Chalala , Lusaka at sunrise
Dirt Roads of Chalala , Lusaka at sunrise

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The memorial site for the Late President Levy Mwanawasa
The memorial site for the Late President Levy Mwanawasa

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Job creation? 6 receptionists found virtually doing nothing a local hotel,perhaps each one represents the 6 clocks on the wall
Job creation? 6 receptionists found virtually doing nothing a local hotel,perhaps each one represents the 6 clocks on the wall

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President Robert Mugabe during the Lwiindi Kuzyola traditional ceremony in Livingstone
President Robert Mugabe during the Lwiindi Kuzyola traditional ceremony in Livingstone

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Zambia national soccer team head coach Herve Renard spotted at the Royal Zambezi hotel in Livingstone on Tuesday
Zambia national soccer team head coach Herve Renard spotted at the Royal Zambezi hotel in Livingstone on Tuesday

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Zambian compounds are fast becoming dumping grounds for old broken down Japanese cars
Zambian compounds are fast becoming dumping grounds for old broken down Japanese cars

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A traffic jam as workers rush for lunch in Thornpark
A traffic jam as workers rush for lunch in Thornpark

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Workers dash for lunch in Thornpark
Workers dash for lunch in Thornpark

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Cars parked at the local police station in Chunga for security
Cars parked at the local police station in Chunga for security

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A private company collects garbage in Lusaka since garbage collection by the city council is non existent
A private company collects garbage in Lusaka since garbage collection the by city council is non existent

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Newspaper call boys get excited to be on LT and pose for a picture
Newspaper call boys get excited to be on LT and pose for a picture

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Fairview hotel where Zambian executives have lunch
Fairview hotel where Zambian executives have lunch

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Minibus driver argues with the driver of the truck after a minor accident as passengers look on
Minibus driver argues with the driver of the truck after a minor accident as passengers look on

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President Rupiah Banda, Tanzanian Jakaya Kikwete and UPND leader Hakainde Hichilema at the Lwiindi Gonde traditional ceremony in Monze.
President Rupiah Banda, Tanzanian Jakaya Kikwete and UPND leader Hakainde Hichilema at the Lwiindi Gonde traditional ceremony in Monze.

Govt happy with construction of Kaputa boarding school

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Government has expressed satisfaction at the pace at which the K29bn boarding Secondary School project in Kaputa district is progressing.

Speaking when he inspected the school project, Northern Province Permanent Secretary Mwalimu Simfukwe said he was happy with the work done so far by a Chinese contractor.

The PS also addressed pupils at Kaputa High School and appealed to parents to stop the practice of marrying off their girl children at a tender age.

Mr Simfukwe noted that the number of girls in school was not encouraging and urged parents to accord equal education opportunities to both girls and boys.
He further advised the girls to resist attempts by their parents to force them into early marriage as this would ruin their future.

He said such parents who force their children into early marriages should be reported to relevant authorities.

Mr. Simfukwe said Government was putting up such education infrastructure because it realizes that education is key to national development.

The PS said the Boarding school project, which will take over three years to complete, would accord an opportunity to pupils in far flung places of the district to complete their secondary school education.

He said government was concerned that some pupils from far places were renting houses in shanty compounds because the district had no boarding facilities.

ZANIS

Developing our own System

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Like the owner of this car lets abandon old systems that are not functional and a drain on our national coffers
Like the owner of this car lets abandon old systems that are not functional and a drain on our national coffers
By C.K. Chanda

Since independence on October 24th, 1964, Zambia cannot boast of having created a wholly owned political and economic system. A system which embraces the values, traditions, and aspirations of its people.

The country has lagged behind in most sectors largely because of trying to adopt and adapt to foreign systems. In the process, Zambians have been left bewildered about what it is that we truly stand for as a nation. Successive leaders have failed to provide meaningful direction in developing a system which is easily adaptable, manageable, and workable in the context of our circumstances.

Decades have passed us by with no meaningful progress toward a well designed, less complex, and user-friendly system. This lack of a home-bred system has placed serious constraints on efforts to alleviate poverty in the country. A typical example is our government structure. This remains largely a creation of the at-independence constitution, some 45 odd years ago. And instead of creating multi-pronged institutions and empowering them to perform independently, we have only succeeded in creating more institutions which simply duplicate the works of older ones, which in turn puts economic pressure on our government to fund them and pay employee benefits.

This trend has resulted in more bureaucracy with little forward progress on the ideals they were established for. The existence of some of these structures has led to massive abuse of public resources by those with the consent to govern, at the expense of the humble and patriotic members of our society. It is right to point out that, any attempt to adapt to a foreign or alien ideal spells disaster because different regions, countries, and their people have differing and divergent needs, wants, resources, and experiences.

Having highlighted some major barriers to our progress, it is only prudent to propose some policy shifts in the creation and execution of a Zambian system.

Firstly, the structure of government. It is a well known fact that the size of our government is too large for a country which does not generate enough domestic resources. It would be a wise move to do away with positions such as Deputy Minister, Provincial Minister, Deputy Permanent Secretary, Deputy Director, and perhaps, Deputy high Commissioner. These positions have no relevance in our government system and only serve to compete for resources with more functional positions. Not only that, these positions simply create a lazy atmosphere as work for one person is being split between two. The amount of resources expended on these ceremonial positions could rightly be channeled to more important sectors of the economy.

Secondly, it is time that Zambia reviewed its need to have so many embassies around the world. The review should include the roles that these establishments have played in enhancing political, economic, and social progress for our people. Again, it is not necessary to have embassies scattered around the globe which do not live up to their or the government’s international mission statement. The question I beg to ask is, Is it really necessary to maintain embassies in countries within the same region? For instance, why should we have an embassy in Namibia and one in Zimbabwe as well? Why can’t we as a country establish embassies based on regions? We can have an embassy in Namibia which will cater for countries surrounding it. This is a computer age and so much can and has been accomplished via the internet. Does this sound like a cost saving measure? Sure it does.

Thirdly, Zambia can consolidate the operations of the DEC and ACC. Create separate units under one umbrella, empower them financially, and leave them to do their jobs independent of political manipulation and abuse. Do we really need to have these two institutions operating independently? I am sure that this can be done if we have the right mindset, priorities, and the will to do it. Mahatma Ghandi once said, “If I have the belief that I can do it, I will surely acquire the capacity to do it, even if I may not have it at the beginning”. So all we need as Zambians is to have the belief that we can change our way of running government if only we believe.

I leave the rest to my fellow patriotic Zambians to magnify and ponder. Any progressive ideas that anyone else may have, for or against, will certainly enhance the possibilities of creating a system which will work for us and make us better off tomorrow. I salute you my fellow Zambians.

RB is in good health – Shikapwasha

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President Rupiah Banda, Tanzanian Jakaya Kikwete and UPND leader Hakainde Hichilema at the Lwiindi Gonde traditional ceremony in Monze.
President Rupiah Banda, Tanzanian Jakaya Kikwete and UPND leader Hakainde Hichilema at the Lwiindi Gonde traditional ceremony in Monze.
The Government has refuted reports that President Rupiah

Banda is unwell and failed to address MMD cadres at Livingstone International Airport before his return to Lusaka on Wednesday.

Chief Government spokesperson Ronnie Shikapwasha said in Lusaka yesterday that President Banda was in good health and that his recent knee operation in South Africa was healing well.[quote]

Answering questions from journalists during a tour of media institutions, Lieutenant-General Shikapwasha said it was unfair for some people to continue politicising Mr Banda’s health when he was fine.

“President Banda is very fine and he is not sick. He is able to walk and his knee operation is healing well, it is sad that some people are trying to politicise his health,” he said.

He was clarifying media reports that President Banda was unwell and failed to address cadres at Livingstone International Airport.

Gen Shikapwasha said if Mr Banda was unwell, he could not have managed to attend the recent Zambia International Trade Fair (ZITF) on the Copperbelt and Lwiindi traditional ceremony in Monze.

He said Mr Banda further attended the Lwiindi Kuzyola Mukuni Ng’ombe traditional ceremony of the Toka-Leya people of Livingstone and Kazungula on Tuesday with Zimbabwean President Robert Mugabe.

“This shows that our president is fine. You can see that he walked on these occasions implying that he is in very good health,” Gen Shikapwasha said.

He, however, said it was normal for President Banda to get sick once in a while because he was also a human being like any other person who could get ill at any time.

He urged all Christians to continue praying for President Banda to enable him recover fully from the knee operation and continue to carry out his national duties.

Gen Shikapwasha said it was necessary to pray for whoever was sick in the Government to enable them rule and continue to foster peace in the country.

He said the peace that currently prevailed should be treasured as some countries did not have it because of continued conflicts and wars.
[Times of Zambia]

5% pay rise ceiling for UNZA lecturers justified – Musokotwane

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THE Government has said that the five per cent pay rise ceiling for University of Zambia (UNZA) workers is justified because their current salaries are higher than the public service workers who were given 15 per cent.

Finance and National Planning Minister, Situmbeko Musokotwane said in an interview in Lusaka that the gap between the workers at UNZA and other public service workers was still wide and it was unjustified to expect similar increases.

“I think it is unfair for the workers at UNZA to compare themselves with the public service workers who were recently awarded 15 per cent because even if we had to increase their salaries again the gap is still wide,” he said.

Dr Muskotwane said the Government was unable to meet all demands of the workers because of the global financial crunch which had affected not only Zambia but also the world as a whole.

The university council yesterday appealed to the workers who are on go-slow at the higher institution of learning to immediately resume work to avoid premature closures.

Council chairperson, Tukiya Kankasa-Mabula, warned that keeping students for a long time without learning could agitate them and disrupt the academic calendar.

She said in the event of students getting agitated, the university council would have no option but to consider closing the institution to protect life and property.

“In the event of a closure, the university council would suffer serious financial constraints which could significantly jeopardise the operations of the university even after the impasse, ” Dr Kankasa-Mabula said.

But University of Zambia Lecturers and Researchers Union (UNZALARU) president, Euston Chiputa said separately that for as long as their demands were not met, calling off the go-slow would not be possible.

At a Press briefing, Dr Chiputa said that the lecturers and researchers would not return to work for as long as their demands were not addressed.

Among the demands, Dr Chiputa said, were unpaid retirement benefits, baggage and passage allowances, unpaid pension subscription, unpaid contractual gratuity and unpaid leave.

He said that most lecturers and researchers experienced problems of accommodation and were denied loans.

He said members of UNZALARU did not take pleasure in disturbances that led to the closure of the university. It was for this reason that they had been calling for dialogue with the Government.

Dr Chiputa said it was regrettable that several attempts by UNZALARU to meet Secretary to the Cabinet, Joshua Kanganja, to discuss the plight of lecturers and researchers had failed.

He alleged that it was frustrating for Dr Kanganja to demand that UNZARALU should instead meet the Zambia Congress of Trade Unions (ZCTU).

University of Zambian Students Union (UNZASU) president, Duncan Nyirongo, said although the students had so far gone for two weeks without learning, UNZASU would still ensure that peace and calm at the institution prevailed.
Mr Nyirongo said the students did not want to be blamed for causing disturbances.

[Times of Zambia]

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